So MissKelly and I were talking and came up with the question of how many couples let the sub of the relationship be on top when haveing sex. Being in the top position in my mind is a very dominate spot to be in during sex. So How many subs in your opinion are allowed to be on top during pentrative sex?
I'd say that whatever makes the lady happy is OK. If she likes being taken, if she enjoys being desired, if she wants an obedient but manly man, why should she deny herself those pleasures? Imagine the man *knows* how to behave. Imagine he's *eager* to please and *happy* when he's denied an orgasm. Imagine he really feels he's being submissive and he's been *told* him being on top is what his lady trully likes. A woman who enjoys her man on top would be a fool if she were to give that up simply because some women don't like it and some don't see it as dominant enough.
I think this is at the discretion of the Mistress as always. Most of the time I am on top, to dominate the boy , keep him where he needs to be but sometimes to confuse his little brain I make him get up there- always with a twist though... He's not allowed to look at me. ALWAYS has to ask how and for what length of time and must ALWAYS ask to cum. If I allow this he must clean all of the mess up
Sub's aim must be satisfy his Mistress. so, it's her decision. My Mistress usually prefers to cum's on top of me.
My GF prefers me to be on top. Hits all the right spots for her. IMO, whatever makes the Mistress/Wife/GF feel best is what makes sense. As long as she gets what she wants and needs, why does position matter? As far as the dominant aspect of being 'on top,' she only needs to put her hand on your throat, squeeze your nipples, scratch your back, or any of a number of things to make you remember that while even underneath you physically, she's still on top. Of course, only if that's what she wants.
I have always felt it far more appropriate that I am underneath, being dominated, used and providing a source pleasure to my wife, that she can enjoy as she wishes. On the odd occasion I have not been underneath, it has been at her requirement and always to give her pleasure and satisfaction.
Mistress is usually on top riding me. On occasion she will allow slave to be on top with strict orders not to mess or punishment will be quick and severe. I am also not allowed to look at Mistress and must follow her orders on how fast, how hard, etc. Occasionally she will allow slave to kneel between her spread legs and stroke her cock until slave leaks pre cum on her pussy and then slave is ordered to clean her up.