I'm new here so hope I'm posting in the correct section My fiancé got me the cb6000 and we have fun with it, the problem is she is to impatient and releases me to early, we at looking for ways so none of us have access to the key for a set time so I can be locked up for longer, the longest she has lasted is 2 days but we are both eager to go for longer Any suggestions would be great
Why do you care when she releases you? It's not your decision, it's hers to make! Think of it this way, once the lock went on it's her toy, not yours and she is free to decide when, where and how much so get over it.
Have to agree whit kelli. She is in charges, and if thats mean, when you out thats her call and u need to be gratefull alway tell he that dont push he or she might call it off. Orterwise then u kan keep the key you self. But if she need some strengs then she can put it in the bank or put it in a big bowl of water and freze it down. Then it takes a good time to melt. Its hard as a new keyholder not feeling like shes cruel to her sub. Maybe she will read: the keyholders guide. Thats help me.
If penetrative sex is what she wants, that's what she gets. Why should she deny herself? But I understand the desire to be locked up longer. My GF doesn't keep me locked very long either. I sometimes wish she would deny me longer, but if she did so she would be denying herself, and would be allowing my wants to supersede hers. If being controlled is what you want and controlling you is what she wants, then you should allow her to do so. Especially when your idea of control is different it is important to remember that she is in charge. That being said, since you both enjoy the erotic anticipation and she is looking for ways to allow that to continue for her pleasure (as you indicated), there are many techniques for making access to the keys difficult. I encourage you to look though the other posts as there are many, many threads dealing with this topic. A good start: http://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/threads/the-carlilock.6714/
This...Plus if she thinks yours is too small she can just get a bigger one . Don't think you're coming out for a while if she finds that out.
I agree with Kelli. . Though it's quite easy to arrange things so access to the key is difficult for her too if desired. One way: put the keys in a lock box, then freeze the lockbox key in a container in the freezer in a way which means the freezer needs defrosting to get them out. Or put them in a bank deposit bex. Or use a time release box.
I have heard about a time release box but I have been unable to find one at a reasonable price in the uk? Does anybody have a link for one or even a time release padlock??? Thanks again for all the reply's
Being in charge of the key can be confusing and stressful at first. Putting it out of reach is a great idea. Mailing it to yourself is one possibility. Looking for a self bondage key safe is another - I've seen some on ebay, but you can also try googling for "captured discipline". A cheaper alternative if you have a scanner is to use a combination padlock to lock the key away. The way this works is you set the combination without looking and scan that - without looking - into your PC. You then use timed encryption software to encrypt the image of the combination. The simplest tool for this I've found is called PictureLokIt (http://picturelokit.sourceforge.net/main.htm). (I wrote some instructions on my blog.)