As im on the honour system and edge frequently I was wondering if anyone has experimented with penile conditioning... For example.. something like the death grip so you would never cum when she gives a blowjob, hand job or sex? Personally id love that lol Or another way to condition your self to only cum from something different to penile stimulation..
I'm not sure that would work, but maybe others have better knowledge? What might work is to feminize the orgasm. For Sissy Academy at Sissy Lover site, you are allowed to start gently stroking, and over time, you go to rubbing, and then IIRC penetration is needed (only rub when full), and eventually chastity and pursue a sissygasm. The Death Grip is made to go away ASAP. Also for consideration, I was... Talented at keeping things going. (One girlfriend and I were going, pumping, for a half hour straight. no toys, no desensitizing agents.) It's because I also wore women's control panties when I slept, for years before, with the little fellow pointing to the belly button. Nocturnal erections had the frenulum and parts of the glans exposed, and rubbed on the harder powernet material, so - desensitized that way. I don't know if that would work with deathgrip, though - skin is too soft. Maybe a toothbrush instead? I don't know. Worth experimentation. ;-) If you want to remain hard, but "unable" to cum, I'd suggest CO2-extracted Chasteberry - you'll be happy to go to the party, but bored to death there. Chasteberry affects DHT, reducing it greatly. It won't stop male pattern baldness, say, or body hair growth, but it DOES reduce the sensations in the glans, so you won't get the stimulation. Your mind will make you hard, but the nerves don't get the stimulation... The hormone triggers won't be there. I used Chaste Berry Vitex Extract 300mg Now Foods 90 VCaps In about 2 weeks, I had no real urge to rub one out, as I could spend a half hour rubbing, and nothing happened. (And then had to put away my little friend, who... isn't THAT little.) It was 1 pill 2X a day, morning and evening, as I recall. Vitamin Shoppe, GNC, Bulk Supplements has bulk version, too. I chose the NOW brand because of recommendations on a forum for growing breasts as a male.Supposedly a better extraction method, keeps the necessary compounds in good, unoxidized, form. -Dianna
I know my penis has been conditioned over our marriage and long before we tried male chastity, for me to get fully hard, I have to give attention to my Wife’s body. In other words, if she starts playing with it, I’ll start to get aroused, but won’t be ready to perform until I massage, caress, kiss her body or give her head or something. It has gone well with our chastity play
There's no guarantee. Lower doses seems to increase prolactin, which COULD lead to some breast growth. Higher doses seem to decrease prolactin, though, which would inhibit any breast growth. So, it's like the bell curve, you increase Chasteberry on the X axis, and the Y Axis is levels of Prolactin. Lower dose, increases Prolactin, it increases until at some higher does, it comes back down. (In statistics, would be a skew-Right, or positive skew, probably.)
Appreciate the information. Interested in the decreased glans sensation but have zero interest in the potential for breast growth. Guess will have to pass, which is unfortunate.
Problem with all of this is, no matter what, you MIGHT be that freak who gets DDs because, to make the example, you chewed Spearmint gum. (Spearmint takes free T out of the blood, it would be absorbed through the mouth mucus and membranes, i.e., Buccal or Sublinguil application.) I understand not wanting to take the chance, of course. ;-) But, hey... BOOBIES! ;-)
I used the method to stroke but stop before ejaculation, at first it was not evident and missed a lot of tests. But with time and get used to be chast you can stroke slowly for 10 min and have no more ejaculation. Lidocaine helps a lot in that. Now after years of training I am able to be hard, stroke and not ejaculating at all, like you body knows you don't need it. You just need to stop masturbating when you feel it came ors thinks at something absolutly disgusting and not exciting and it break your erection and desire. Do it that way many times and you will be able to be hard, stroke and not being able to ejaculate at all.
Yes! Happens all the time. She can get me hard, but I've been conditioned NOT to ejaculate, so I don't.
it is nice to see I am not alone in that case. No idea if it is mental or physiology but yes. Yo ucan get hard but you no longer cum like if you body knows that it is useless to have to release any semen. Some kind of mental castration I guess. But it don't stop to be hard (even if you are a lot less due to cage when you have it). A mental cage in fact that keep you in your place.