Turning it around and then taking back the power

Yesterday my GF, interested in why I was enjoying this, decided she wanted to deny herself an orgasm to see what the build-up would be like. I happily complied, I got her to the edge and then stopped, multiple times... then left her alone for a while, then went back and did it again I did this through out the day probably about 4 times and about 5 to 30 min each time. She couldn't stand it in the end and said she didn't want it anymore "help me cum" hehehe.

I bargained with her now and said “yes but if I do, you have to let me as well”.... now I know this is slightly against the idea of chastity but god it was fun and she agreed. After she had her fun and had what she described as an amazing “O”, she proceeded to edge me, we had discussed that maybe this was a good chance for her to practice her ruined orgasm skills but I did not think she was going to go through with it. Our only success so far is when I do not thrust or move at all so every time I moved she stopped or she lightly bit me on my …, well I'll let imaginations run wild. Anyway this went on for about 10 min than

she said "are you going to come or not?"

I said "yes but you keep stopping"

"well if I don't stop how long will it take you?" "

"2min I think"

Well you have 1 min you better hope you cum"

She went longer than 1 min but when I did finish she removed herself from her cock entirely and although I did orgasm it felt like maybe a 1/4 of what it should have been after 10 days.


So maybe I should not try in future to bargain with my orgasms It appears to not work out in my favour