Advice please slipping out of cage

Hi everyone, im brand new to trying chastity for the first time and have bought a cage from locked life uk, it’s called a clear beginners cage .

when it arrived I was really happy with it as it was a good low price and it looked like I got a lot for my money , the cage , 5 different sized base rings , 2 guide pins, 4 different length locking pins , 4 plastic spacers , 5 difffernt plastic padlocks , a metal padlock and key , and the two plastic bridge / crown parts ( sorry I don’t know the correct name for these parts as I say I’m brand new to chastity )

Anyway there was two sizes of cage to choose from regular or small , I think the small is about 48 mm long and the regular about 60 ofd mm long . I chose the small as I’m not tiny but a bit on the small side, and I thought the smaller cage would be more restrictive.

however when I’m wearing the cage I’m wearing the second biggest base I can pull my ring , I honestly don’t think I can go any smaller with the base ring without risking cutting off or restricting circulation . I don’t think it’s the base ring that’s the problem, the problem is when my penis is totally soft and flaccid it’s turtling and almost slipping out of the cage by itself , And if I pull the base of my penis back toward my body I can pull my penis out of the cage quite easily.

so can anyone tell me how to solve this please ? Do I need a longer cage , or a smaller base ring , or is it the length of the locking pin or spacers that need adjusting ? I’m not keen at alll on getting a piercing or wearing a uretha insert , But if I’m going to try the chastity thing I’d like to get a cage where I can’t actually get out of without the lock being opened and not just to be able to pull out whenever I feel like it .

someone suggested a holy trainer , or a cobra cage , or a vice cage , But then I’ve also seen a lot of people saying that without a piercing or uretha insert you can pull out of any trapped round the ballls style cage , and if that’s the case I don’t want to waste money on a expensive cage that I can still pull out of , to my mind that’s a waste of money.

anyway sorry for the long post and thanks for taking the time to read it , any comments, suggestions, advice will be much appreciated. I’m going to try and attach pics of my current cage

 

Hi tango sub thanks for your reply , thing is my cage is not a genuine cb, and would the pull out add on fit a copy cage like mine ? The base ring seems tight enough its my penis is actually slipping out of the cage, someone suggested yesterday a bigger cage that would cover more of my penis , like a holy trainer, cobra, or the vice , and the bigger cage woulld not leave any room between the base of my penis and my body to enable my penis to be pulled out ? but thanks for your reply

 

The person that posted yesterday said that being able to pull out of a smaller cage was a common problem

 

Hi LakeMan , I really appreciate your reply but im having problems creating this link, the website is lockedlife.co.uk the cage i bought is under the beginners cages, its the beginner clear one priced at £12.95 and i bought it in the small size , I would be really grateful if you could have a look on that website ? And again thanks for your time and replies, appreciated.

 

Hi thanks for your reply, From what ive read online the inverted cages are supposed to be for more advanced users of chastity cages ? And im trying to make the one ive bought just now fit/ work as ive only just bought it Lol . To be perfectly honest with everyone ive loved female domination for a long time , But i honestly dont know if i will be able to cope with wearing a chastity cage and being denied orgasms for a long time , Thats why i bought a cheap beginners cage to experiment with and try chastity, If i decide chastity is for me i might look at different cage options for the future, But thanks for your reply.

 

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Hi JustHere, Ive tried the smaller rings supplied with my device and by the time they have went round the the base of my testicles they just dont come up high enough to go round my penis , But thanks for your reply.

 

Hi MaggotNub , id say not tiny but on the small size , But that might be something to try for the future if i decide that chastity is deff for me , and thanks for your reply

 

Hi i will have a look at that and thanks, The device ive bought has got 5 different sized rings , spacers, and different sized locking pins, so you would think i could do somethimg with that ? not unless ive just bought too small a cage size @ 46 mm , but thanks for your reply bondinchas.

 

Thanks very much for your advice and help bondinchas

 

Hi Gremlin and thanks for your reply, And im going to try and explain my own situation a bit better.
My wife and I have been together in a loving relationship for 26 years , We love each other and have a good relationship , Its just that I have always enjoyed being dominated, teased and tormented by dominant women . [ we let her horny single sister join in the fun sometimes ] For the last while I have been pleasing my wife with pussy worship but no expectation of sexual favours or pleasure for me in return, { sometimes i please her sister with pussy worship as well]
I suggested chastity to my wife as a way of advancing her dominance and control over me, And the reason I bought the device I have now.

But here is where i come to a conflict of what I want , Im 63 now , have got a bit of ED, Yes i know some people would say perfect scenario , But if my wife totally at her decision and and at her decision whether im allowed to orgasm or not , I still want too be able to get hard when and if my wife feels like having my penis inside of her.

Too complicate matters viagra and the other pd5 inhibitor drugs dont work well for me as I am on long term medication for epilepsy , And the epilepsy medication counteracts with and stops the viagra from working . On one of my visits too the doctor he said he could see signs of abuse marks on my penis and testicles [ yes we had been experimenting with a bit of cbt ] But he said if he seen any more evidence of deliberate abuse on my private parts he would refuse to give me any help with my Ed problems , And so i know that me getting a PA or any kind of piercing on my private parts would not go down well with the doctor well at all ,

sorry for long reply but just felt I wanted to explain my own situation a bit better.