Calling on experienced Mistress' to advise a beginner! Having to deal with a disobedient sub, he finds it funny when I try to stamp my authority, I have tried different punishments but he becomes immune. The journey: I was a submissive, him the dominant, it has been a complete role reversal and it is taking some time and a lot of effort to train him. Walked off the job this morning and I didn#t orgasm, he then blamed me for writhing. Please note that I have made a massive effort to be firm with only some success, it's not for not trying.......... Gratitude for the advice in advance............
Maybe firm isnt the way. Particularly where your orgasms are concerned. Pressure to perform can only end in disaster.
You could go down the path of no more fun . For a lot of subs that is a really awful punishment . The threat might work or maybe just a taster of what no more might be like. Xx Wendy
Being teased is fun. For a true punishment, I hate being denied without the teasing. Being denied and ignored is miserable!
Just end it, if he wont take the role seriously then why pretend it exists? End it, dump him find a genuine sub.