Fundamentally it’s the KH’s libido that dictates the whole experience - thoughts

I know, there are many different constellations happening here.
I liked the sentence about lucky guys with the different chastity experience. My husband seems to be one of them. He perceives it as his dayly joy bringing me to orgasm. I am enjoying it as well. But occasionally the motivation comes into my mind. If I want him to serve, then should he perceive it as his joy?