Stupidly I gave in a week ago and unlocked to jerk one off and then thought why bother locking back up. My wife didn’t know I had done and also didn’t know that I stayed unlocked afterwards. She asked me the next day was I locked I said no and she looked at me with a what look. I said because the key is always around I felt that I could just unlock and not restrain myself. She then said so you can’t be trusted and I said no so I was immediately told to go and lock again and give her the key ( she already had one of them on her car keys). The key is now hidden and she has to get it to give to me for washing duties then straight back to her. Yesterday I said I need to unlock to shave so she gave me the key. This morning she said for future reference I need to ask permission to unlock for shaving and not I need to unlock. Mistakes have consequences.
Well you found out what happens when you cross the line. Don't expect to ever see the key again. I am in chastity for masterbation control and I will probably go to the grave with the cage on. I will say I find it much more enjoyable when Goddess P gives me my orgasms than me masterbating
Actually sounds like you got off lightly. In many cases, such an act would result in some sort of discipline to help you remember your error.
She needs to get a keysafe! Mrs Chaste bought one and had me fix it to the wall at the back of our walk-in cupboard! Needless to say I have no idea what the combination is!
That may still come she hasn't said as much but her reaction to me saying I need to and not asking permission to do so may come back to haunt me
My wife has been leaving the key in the bathroom lately. Sunday I was feeling particularly neglected. I took my device off in protest. She confronted me that evening asking why I wasn't locked and what's the matter. I told her. She didn't appreciate my temper tantrum, that I know I'm supposed to ask to be unlocked and if I'm feeling that way I need to talk to her. She didn't push me to lock back up. But I did the next morning. That evening I wanted to unlock for a shower and shave. I asked her and she answered me with a question. "Do you deserve to be unlocked?". No. No I dont. "Then go take a shower your not getting unlocked for it." She came in and took the key while I was getting in the shower.