After some other issues have settled down, and some introspection of why I feel chastity is needed in my life, I have talked with Mistress Wolf again and been given permission to be locked part time. New device is here, is much smaller and tighter, but fits wonderfully. Basically will be locked overnight, or when at home in the evenings for my own well being, and see how it goes. Locked time and duration may increase, or (hopefully) even become semi-permanent to help me control urges that result in negative growth for me. Not sure how much I will actually be on the forum, but wanted to at least let people know I'm still around.
THIS is what I am wearing now... compared to the Jailbird had last, WOW what a difference. https://www.aliexpress.com/item/201...thral-Catheter-BDSM-Sex-Toys/32697083525.html Jailbird was 2/12 long, 1 7/8 round base and 1 3/4 cage diameter, this one is about 1' long, 1 3/8 cage diameter, and 1 3/4 base ring... much better fit, could be just a little longer, but is definitely a restraint and deterant
after a couple of nights locked (with no issues other than a little slippage down the shaft) things are looking very good for this one.. wondering now if the Jailbird would have actually worked with a 1 3/4" base ring..even with the cage itself being too big. Not that it matters, what matters now is keeping myself in a good place/frame of mind, and keeping Mistress Wolf happy with myself.