Information update

I do not update. It has been 6 days since my last orgasm and will be another 8 until I have one. The reason I do not update is that we do not do standard chastity periods, and it is not an aspect of our chastity play that means anything to us. We do not shoot for any specific time period or even keep me locked up all the time between my orgasms. My wife often does not remember when my last orgasm was and basically lets me have an orgasm whenever the heck she feels like it. It could be two days in a row or once a week. Who knows and who cares other than me.

 

When people use the "locked up since" field, do they mean since they went into chastity or since their were last unlocked? I have had a day or two out for various reasons since I first was locked full time in mid-January. I just don't want to mislead people. I don't use the "last orgasm" field since I am allowed orgasms once a week or so.

 

Lucky punch! I've got it right.
I've Been locked up in chastity since april 2013. I post my very rare releases along with my wifes plentiful in an online calendar. It makes me proud and astounded at the same time to see all of her entries. It is my evidence that this is all about her needs. I wish there was a calendar module in CM, where D/s releases could be published.
At first I was not lock up 24/7 but now I am, since my wife took mattes in her own hands and became more dominant. I'm no longer allowed to touch myself - at all. Only during supervised cleanings.

 

Mine is up to date. I last had an orgasm (ruined or otherwise) on 3 March 2013. In a few weeks time, my KH has promised I can try and orgasm in 30 seconds. If not, I'll be waiting another 12 months.

In case I DO manage it (ruined, of course) I shall update my ticker.

 

My hand will be a blur!

 

Don't get me wrong, -I'm certainly not trying to offend You - only to be more knowledgable in the fine arts of submissiveness, so I will ask You very direct: Why have you ended up with just one 30 seconds wank-job every 12 month- if you even manage that?
Honestly is this what YOU want? Not sure what your connections with your KH is like. If she is not present on a daily basis - she shouldn't care that much - or?
My limited release schedule is partly my desire combined with my wife's awareness of the decline in household service and obedience days after a release-lol. So I have only been granted one pr. month - on average this year, -if I behave and serve punctually. And only When I have been very good I will be allowed to penetrate her…
And Gues what - I still like that a lot! I am however never allowed to touch her cock. Never….
Where I am in my submissiveness this arrangement makes perfectly sense - to both of us..
How About You - Are You allowed to talk about it ?

Sincerly

 

Sure, I can talk about it.

Originally (about three years ago), the chastity was my idea and I asked her to hold the key. This meant a lot of topping from the bottom but she is now at the point where she accepts how much I enjoy being submissive. The other night, she asked me how I wanted to celebrate my 365 days. I started to suggest something when she just decided the 30 seconds limit and a ruined orgasm. When I asked her what if I didn't and, with an evil glint in her eyes she said "Another 12 months, I guess."

It's weird but I thoroughly enjoyed her taking the lead and deciding my fate.

I should add that we're not married, though I see her quite regularly. Her husband knows and thinks I'm insane.

 

I used to update mine, but kept forgetting later on, now I have just given up on updating it. Think it's been a year since I updated it.

I don't pay attention to anyone else's either.

 

Thanks for letting me in on the background I wonder if I ever will be craving longer and longer lock-ups?
Have to admit that my initial 7 days wish has raised with almost 500 % in ten months. Do a little math on that equation - and You start to get dizzy- lol….