Hi, I am curious how dommes direct their subs during their menstrual periods. My wife won't talk about this much and does not want to be sexual at all. Her periods typically last 5-7 days and her PMS has been getting worse. I have read that orgasm helps for general relief and can even shorten the duration. I have sent her various links I've found to this effect but I think she has a negative view and doesn't really let me do much at all during this time of the month. Our Hitachi Magic Wand works like a charm through her pad - she is very capable of orgasm (and enjoys it) but I think it's a negative self image or feeling of shame that she does not usually let me play with her much. So, she resists but if I am persistent she will let me pleasure her that way. It could be my imagination, but I suspect that when she does play with me during this time, she seems a little bit rougher than normal. She will not allow me to penetrate her during this time. Since I've never had any experience with this, I am not sure what that would be like. I am not easily grossed out and I think it should be pretty straightforward just to clean up afterwords. I am curious what sorts of activities (if any) dommes want during their menstrual periods. Do you have any special rituals or desires from your subs? Thanks for your input!