After being locked for around 4 weeks, yesterday was my birthday. I was all excited ready to be unlocked. Well as a matter of fact i was not. The wife stated that staying locked was my gift. She accepts that i needed her bad but she just said why spoil something thats took weeks to build up. Stupid me. Chasity was my idea but now she just says its her new found love and theres no going back. Oh well
A couple of years ago, my birthday came and went (after I had been locked for three months), and I found it strangely erotic. I got to make love to Mrs Edge with my strapon (as was the norm), but she never even hinted at unlocking me. The weekend passed, then the next weekend... still nothing. Later on I told her that it was incredibly hot for her to have made the decision to keep on going. She told me that she had briefly considered it, but then decided that she was enjoying the situation and decided against it. Like your wife, she came to see my being locked as my reward.