Pretty self explanatory. I'm a 22 year old recent college grad who has had a deep interest in femdom and denial since I stumbled across some porn of ruined orgasms when I was about 15 or 16. For whatever reason, I was hooked, and that interest has carried on to the present day. As my summer job had ended and the hunt for a real world job had begun, I found myself with a fairly small amount of spending money and a bit of extra time on my hands. After deciding to get a fleshlight a week or so ago, I quit my debating and snagged a CB-6000S at a good price, figuring that I would take the plunge once and for all. After putting it on yesterday (and pinching myself a fair bit), I now know why people are into chastity play. I was a bit of a needy mess yesterday, but slept with it on. I woke up this morning and took it off to shower and clean it, and kept it off, figuring I would behave for the rest of the day. I made it until about 1:30, when I laid down to take a nap and realized that I was probably going to get horned up. Almost feel naked without it now... Anyway, I'm locked up, got a RudeBoy on the way, and still haven't used the fleshlight. Looking forward to seeing how long I can last.
Welcome to Chastity Mansion. Good luck resisting! Also, congratulations on graduating and good luck on the hunt for the elusive "real world job."
Good luck with your real toy locked away. As far as that "horned up" feeling, it will only intensify the longer your toy is tucked away. Please let us know how long you can resist playing. It should be an interesting ride for you.
Thanks for the welcome all. More salacious details: I'm on day three right now, no real issues so far. I went down a spacer size due to my cock backing out of the tube a bit. The fit was alright when I would put the tube on (as I was usually getting hard), but would back out later on.. The fit is better with the second smallest spacer size, though there was a slight issue with it causing irritation to my balls. Lubing up the ring seemed to fix that. Anyway, I changed out the spacer and went to bed, that evening was definitely a bit more difficult than the previous one. Popping a boner with the smaller spacer is a bit less comfortable than the larger one, so there were some issues with that before I fell asleep. A boner woke me up a couple hours later too. Well, we shall see how day three goes. I kind of want to allow myself a teasing session, but it might be too soon for that.
Wake ups happen and will continue to happen. I've changed from the CB series to HolyTrainer and still I get wake ups, but without any pain, the ring makes the difference to my opinion. Well anyhow: no reason at all for me to sleep without it now, I look at it as part of my body. And the longer you go the better (or less worse) the wake up situations get. So: resist and enjoy the ride! Welcome to the Mansion!
Felix: Thanks! Nice to know that it is a pretty normal thing. How do you like the Holy Trainer? I looked into that device before the CB.
I prefer it over a CB series. The shaped ball trap ring really avoids pain also the tube is very comfortable. With the CB series I never could go more than a couple of days 24 hours a day, now with the HTv2 I wear it 24/7 since more than two months (only 5 min out for cleaning every other day), so that is great. I ordered also the smaller tube and this will be delivered today. My plan is to switch daily the tubes, the standard tube for the night and the small one for the day. That way I can minimize my time out: remove the cage, clean the penis and put the cleaned other cage on. Once locked again, I will then prepare the single cage by cleaning it, ready for the next switch. I've stated with the HTv2 on 16/5 this year, so by the end of the year I will post a review of my experiences. Just hope that the small will not be too small...
(If I need to post this elsewhere, lemme know) Today was difficult. Woke up twice because of a hard on, actually made a point of showering with it on because I was hard when I woke up for real. The rest of the day went fine until this afternoon. I got horny and decided to tease myself while locked up. Off into fantasy land I went, and I played a bit with my fleshlight. Well, I let myself out and broke the rules I had yesterday, I lubed up and jerked off a bit, before then stroking with the fleshlight. I had set a time limit for 10 minutes, and set the rule for myself that I couldn't fuck the toy, only stroke with it. I kept it together for most of the session, edged 3-4 times, but never felt like I was going to go past the point of no return. Until the last minute. I was giving myself some deep strokes and felt like I was at the edge and pulled out, literally right as the timer went off. I didn't cum, no dribble or anything. Anyway, I locked myself back up and felt kind of bad that I had almost screwed up so early on. Grrrr.
I let myself out of chastity for the weekend, pleased at the fact I had no problems. However, as usually happens if when I am in denial for a while, prostate congestion started up. Not really the most pleasant feeling in the world, felt like I had to pee a lot and I usually leaked precum after the feeling came about. My Rudeboy vibrator had arrived on Friday, so I decided to make a serious attempt at using it last night. I edged for maybe an hour or so before playing with it. Being my second time trying anal play, it took some effort to get it in and get it situated. I played around with the different vibe settings before getting a bit frustrated and actively fucking myself with it. I knew that I was rubbing the prostate because it felt like I was going to pee, so I increased the speed a little hoping that I could actually milk myself. I got semi hard during this and a little bit of cum dribbled out before what I think was an anal orgasm snuck up on me. I spurted three forceful ropes of cum and made a fairly big mess. I was wearing my shirt still because I hadn't really expected all that much. Physically, it felt awsome, like a full orgasm, as I felt absolutely drained afterwards. However, there was still a needy feeling like I hadn't actually cum. Anyway, I am probably going back into lockup tonight and will be fighting the urge to play with that particular toy for the rest of the week. Even though I had an anal orgasm, I am still considering myself chaste. On to week two.
Hi welcome to CM glad you are making yourself at home. Not making life easy for your self I see . X So young virile chastity flesh light and vibrator up your bum . Wicked combination of things and bound to be difficult. Good luck with all that , however if you do start to go for say 10 days give or take . You probably will start to get anoy ed if you do cum and get more that a bit sort if depressed. Which is why you do read of quiet long lock ups . See how you go be fun to read I am sure. Xx Wendy
Wendygirl: It's been interesting so far. We'll see how this next week goes, going back into lockup tonight. While some purists may not approve, I am not considering the milking session to be a "real" orgasm, as I didn't stimulate my cock at all. It was a really weird feeling, probably going to do another session of that later in the week. Unless that is cheating?
@BiRedneck556 I believe cheating is something only you and your partner in chastity can evaluate. When it fits in the agreement you made with your partner/yourself, then it is not cheating. But I can tell you that for me, the longer lockups give me this wonderful feeling of being proud to have accomplished another X number of days..