As I am not presently in a relationship and don't particularly have the will/financial ability to sustain one right now, all of my T&D and chastity play is with myself. Just wondering if there are any other in a similar camp and what you enjoy doing to yourself. I'm on day three of chastity and I decided that I was a good enough boy to deserve 15 minutes of play time. So, I set my timer and got out my fleshlight. After about 7 or 8 minutes to eating it out (practice never hurts), I unlocked myself, which was pretty nice to feel for the first time. The only rules I gave myself were that I had 15 minutes, couldn't stroke my cock with my hand, and couldn't cum at all. After rubbing the length of my cock against my belly with the fleshlight, I decided to just tease the head of it a little by just placing it at the opening of the now lubed up fleshlight. Well...my willpower to not fully penetrate it went away pretty quickly. I had some fun stroking with it and edged myself about twice before the timer went off. Well, all is cleaned up and I am safely locked away. I am hoping to hold out for at least a month without any sort of orgasm; but this is gonna be a tough time.
Here's my personal opinion If you are self locked & have easy access to the key, then most of the excitement is lost On the other hand when you have no access to the key, then you enjoy it far more So I suggest that leave the key in your friend's car / house (where even he won't find it) And then the dynamics will change!
Take a very long car ride then mail the key back at the Fourth class Book Rate. Tape the key inside a paperback, box it and mail it to yourself. It will take a while to get back. Do it on a Saturday morning. How do I know? LOL Not hot at all. My Dad used to mail things to me this way. He was cheap. Kind of funny. Not having a key. That will change the dynamic. Having access to the key ruins everything. It is worse than finding out you can pull out of most any device. I can keep up the facade of it all. No Pulling Out is Rule # 1. But having access to a key ruins it. My wife is brutal. When I end up locked there is no way out without her allowing it.
Ok so I have been following this site for a few months now. Trolling a little. But this post caught my attention. I am currently a week into teasing and edging myself with a whole lot of cbt in between. I am not locked and don't have a cage unfortunate I know but hopefully that will be sorted out soon. Reading your post I can see where you are cumming from. Self teasing is better than nothing.... also I am a chronic masturbater twice a day at least. So this is a test of will power and from the previous post on pulling out I think it is good training. Just my little ramble
Ok so I have been following this site for a few months now. Trolling a little. But this post caught my attention. I am currently a week into teasing and edging myself with a whole lot of cbt in between. I am not locked and don't have a cage unfortunate I know but hopefully that will be sorted out soon. Reading your post I can see where you are cumming from. Self teasing is better than nothing.... also I am a chronic masturbater twice a day at least. So this is a test of will power and from the previous post on pulling out I think it is good training. Just my little ramble
I think these is not that abnormal as it may seems forself. Like someone said, its better than nothing. And so i think most people will handle it without partner. Its a way and it works...BUT it is not the same like if your partner has the key. the intense is for me much much stronger.
I know it won't ever be the same solo as it will be with a partner, but it is a fun way of exploring regardless. Much respect to yall that have someone to keep you in line.
I like the part of the milinova page that says to watch porn for 1/2 hour each day. That is the kind of tease we self lockers need!