Unique Keyholding Situation

Discussion in 'Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub?' started by JamesAll10, Oct 19, 2015.

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    Hello!
    My wife and I have done this before and we enjoyed it. We are a very happily married couple, love spending time with one another but when it comes to chastity and tasks she is just not into it. My wife doesn't enjoy normal sex so she has little use for me. Vibrators and oral are her items of choice. I'm sure many of you can relate but she's just vanilla. Which is fine for us, she's honest.

    We have tried chastity just the two of us but she gets bored, gives up the key easily and gets stressed. If it's for a day, great, but after that she loses interest. She also does not have a very controlling personality. She is very easy to convince and ultimately it comes down to lack of interest.

    Well I'm not sure if she loses interest or if she's just too nice. She doesn't like to hurt me or put me in any discomfort. HOWEVER... She's does laugh when I do it to myself or someone else does it to me.

    Okay, enough about us. We are seeking a Key Holder for me. We have done this in the past and she's enjoyed having very minimal involvement but watching what things I had to do or the lengths I would go to in order to follow orders. We have agreed to allow almost anything, we do have a large collection of toys. Mainly me acquiring them hoping something peeked her interest.

    We don't care about gender for the Key Holder, just that they are creative and reasonable. I guess that's unique as we aren't looking at this strictly as sexual, we are mainly looking for fun! We look forward to hearing from you!

    This is similar to an older post of mine but we have enjoyed our experiences!
     
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    @JamesAll10 are you looking for a local key holder or distance doesn't matter? Let's chat about the finer details, this sounds interesting.
     
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    @steele The keyholder does not need to be local at all! We have used emalock, carlilock, a general combination safe and sent the photo. Whichever you prefer. I look forward to chatting.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Emlalock can work very well indeed. Someone remote sets you up a session, your wife supervises your lockup signs you up to it and posts then deletes the pic of the combination, and you can then be under total remote control. Your wife could then unlock you even if she wanted. I'm controlling a guy I've never met this way - he's in another country and it works an absolute treat.
     
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    Want another?! Ha
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Not sure. Last one ended yersterday and too soon to know if will repeat.
     
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    Interesting situation!
     
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