I have worn my cage to the gym, thus far I have been lucky and no one was in there the same time I was. I am a little concerned with the first time someone says something. It will probably be a good reminder of my position to my KH.
I have seen posts here from people who get nervous that their cage will be visible through their clothes. I think we all need to just get over that and stand up for who we are. If you're at a gym where you aren't really friends with the other patrons, I'd say go or it, and if anyone makes a comment, the obvious answer is "none of [their] f*cking business." And, yes, the humiliation of it would remind you of your place. A different story at a country club or someplace you are personal friends with people.. that would be too much information for them.
What about those of us who aren't into humiliation and wear a chastity device because we like the sensations of being denied (especially if self-locking)? Or not wanting to force our kinks down the throats of 'nillas? (There was a good piece about this on FetLife recently but I can't recall the link.)
Good points, hijk. I'm not into humiliation myself, but the original poster seemed to be. As for forcing kinks on someone else, I guess I don't see why a chastity device is much different from a body piercing, and no one think twice abotu those. I also think there is a difference between forcing one's kink on others in the sense of doing (for example) corporal punishment in public in front of vanilla folks, which I can see coudl objectionable, but passive wearing body jewelry that happens to lock on you (in a sex-segregated locker room) doesn't rise to that level in my opinion.
Admittedly I read what you wrote just after getting up, and thus read it more harshly than it deserves; at the time I was under the impression you were recommending flaunting the wearing of chastity devices.
Lol Re the segregation bit you would probably be better of in the girls locker room . Either from the humiliation aspects as girls laugh more to the looks and questions and the admiration of your KH even if she is mythical. In the boys I would go the yes my gf makes me wear it , but when I get home she rips my clothes off and unlocks it straight away before jumping on top every time . All guys think they have the best sex so just use that as a weapon against them. The device is proof that your gf is a nymphomaniac !! Xx Wendy
I have not worn it in the gym shower but changing clothes was somewhat of a rush. Normally I wait till the coast is clear and change but it is somewhat of a rush waiting to see if someone comes around the corner and sees me wearing my chastity device.
i was once see with a wet short pant Always tried to avoid it,but you can it for every if you are often in showers the firts was laughing but after a which some wore it too sathey told it their wifes too
Its not as though I flaunt it and there are some showers in cubicles and there are some cubicles to change in if there are little kids around. There is a seperate changing area for families so that rarely happens. Guys rarely see other guys junk, unless its some extrovert with his towel over his shoulder, and most would not want to be seen to be looking or want to admit it by saying something. I've spotted the odd guy looking a few times over the last nearly 30 years but no-one has ever said anything. I guess they might if I went to a gym where I know people but this a big one in the city, where the numbers make you annoymous I guess. My stock answers depending on my mood would be either the one I use for security guys, when I wear the Fort. its jewellery my girlfriend bought it me and I wear it out of respect. or If I'm feeling that way I'd just say, .. Excuse me do I know you? ... Did I ask you talk to me? Which would shut them up or change the subject. Few guys would want a fuss for talking to another guy in a changing room. Either of which would work in most situations You could always use the disabled changing/toilets.
Just a quick PS. I have no idea how one might go on with a full-belt, always wanted to try one of those, I guess you would need a lot of bottle to wear one of those at the gym if you are are showering and changing and there are no cubicles for both. Again though some disabled facilities have toilets and showers in them so maybe that would be the answer.
I wear it quite often at the gym, and if someone sees it, so what. It's something like having an opinion, if you really believe in something, don't be shy in expressing it.
A valid point. Though it perhaps an opinion I would rather not express if avoidable when there are , as there are sometimes, children in the changing rooms or showers. Adults.. they can like it or not I don't give a damn its my body, my junk, and I'll wear what I like when and where I like.
I go to the gym 3 times a week , mostly at night . only guys. never any kids. i am not allowed to hide my device nor do i show it off . i strip in the locker room , walk to the shower or sauna i am always nude in both. No curtains in the shower. while in the sauna guys have asked. i tell them the truth, anything they want to know . most seem interested and want to know more, but feel they or their women would not be up for it. Why is this any different than an ear ring or a large body tattoo ? My chastity comes off. both of my devices are very small but i do shave my body. so they do stand out. I find most guys do look. i have never had any problems or bad comments .I have talked to a number of guys . at 2 gyms, most say they wish their wives were so involved . also i would like ask why do guys not seem to shower at the gym? i have been to 2 gyms in o.k. almost no guys shower. when i was in california guys shower all the time. ???