I thought I would mention this, it may (or not) bridge some concerns. I had denied sex for jack for 5 years, plus all of his home time spent in chastity of various designs. 4 weeks ago and after my boyfriend had been away for 3 weeks himself, Myself and jack suddenly found ourselves in a most passionate and frantic sex session. We had been Domme scening at the time, but things literally went ballistic! Anyway, to the point, he was incredible! ..... and so was I of course. Oddly, it has also accelerated our non erection ruined orgasm play..... odd world sometimes!
I was out of my cage and we were playing around the other day; I hadn't cum for several months. I was pretty worthless, I came all over myself almost the moment she touched my penis. It felt nice to have even a ruined one. Mistress was very nice about it, but I was embarrassed.
I've been locked up for only about 4 months, with orgasms every week or so, up until Locktober (LOL). I then went the entire month with out, and when I was unlocked, I was on a hair trigger. It took seconds of PIV for me to cum. So, from then on, I am required to stimulate my beautiful wife/KH to orgasm with either my hand or mouth immediately BEFORE a planned unlock. That way, it doesn't matter that I'm useless-LOL
That, simply, is amazing! A true hot wife and her cuckold. Five years? That's crazy! (And frighteningly arousing!)
I am pretty small, that being said, she can still have fun with it, and even orgasm if she’s on top and grinding. Chastity has however made being able to last long enough for her to grind one out on me fairly impossible. The fact is, that there is a big difference between being able to have an orgasm with me, and having one with the nicely sized strapon that I wear. There is no comparison. So while she CAN have a bit of fun with me, it will never be the kind of ecstasy from our fill in toy. So my endurance doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. No I don’t last long, but it’s not something she’s really missing out on. Before chastity I could last awhile, pumping and thrusting until she had enough of my poking and got on top and grinded herself to an orgasm. Now I give her quaking orgasms with the strapon, and occasionally lets me rut for the few seconds needed after. She certainly isn’t upset that i can’t last very long.
I was getting about 3-4 Orgasms a year for he past few years. We quit chastity mid November but are back into it again. Major ED problem as well as retrograde ejaculation. No erection and no ejaculation now so we figured that the damage is done and might as well get back into Chastity. I am 66 so it is not a bad had I been a younger man.
Love your style! Out of interest how long on average does Jack go between his ruined orgasms? Also 5 years denial is a fantastic achievement.