Seeking interesting and fun guidance!

Hi Jen,

Welcome to the Mansion-- you certainly landed in a good spot to get every (or at least most!) questions answered to some degree.

For the confused or reluctant wife who has a bf/spouse/partner/husband/whatnot who is interested or pushing into this realm, you should really really read through the contents that a fellow member 'Chastity School' has posted.

A female's perspective FOR a prospective fellow domme/FLR enthusiast

https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...trix-from-my-chastity-perkins-writings.49711/

That is a good place to start and I know these sorts of threads have helped many a lady take their men by the balls and give them what they want while simultaneously, lovingly taking all they ever dreamed of for themselves-- good luck!

 

There is a lot of great people and ideas here just take it at your own pace and enjoy it. There is no right and wrong. It’s what works for you

 

Good luck. Welcome

 

Bear in mind that "chastity perkins" is most likely a man getting his rocks off by writing about his fantasy, also bear in mind that the person who posted here is likely not the person that wrote the original articles - so it could be two different men.

Try not to believe everything you read on the internet Bella.

 

Shhhhhh/wink?

It's more fun this way! My way is just what 'those people' call alternative facts. Believe the fantasy that it WAS a woman after all. Unless there are PP's(pussypics) floatin' around I assume everyone has a dick that isn't verified female and to me, even some of those are ....ambiguous at best.... (J/k love all you green goddesses )

Hmm....a dangerous game to play, got too IRL'y all of a sudden. MindBoner officially lost.

In truth-- I am 98% convinced you're right and have been for some time after reading it.

So.....shhhhh. After all, we both could be wrong and she could have both
As long as I'm fantasizing, might as well go hog wild, right?


P.S. I've spoken to many couples that have used those writings to help their wives embrace it a bit more and so for that, they might as well be an honorary woman anyway, convincing ladies to lock their husbands up. that's what most want around here anyway , right? ......right?

::looks around the empty room::

Looks like I'm gonna start sweating now.

 

My wife indulges very much in "getting your man to do all the chores". We've been practicing a FLR for a while. I'm getting really used to doing as she tells me. Weird thing is I think I feel happier like this. She is a member of the site, but very rarely logs in.

She's out getting her nails done and the only instructions she left as she went out was do the vacuuming... I'm actually feeling guilty that this is not enough and I've been texting her to ask if there's anything else she wants done... nails, so of course no reply, doh!

 

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Welcome to the Mansion Jen.

 

You are right, of course. The true gender of the author doesn't matter.

I was thinking of writing a book(AKA PDF) or substack/medium, of course from the perspective of a woman, since it's the best way to sell books to men.

I just need a name, and Jayne seems too obvious.

I think "Miss Locksalot" has a nice ring to it and I can feel it in my swagger.

 

Hi there and welcome to the mansion!

 

Hello and welcome to the mansion

 

There's a lot of interesting sites on Female Led Relationships, this seemed good - https://www.aboutflr.com/what-is-flr/

There doesn't need to be any kink involved in a FLR, but my Wife and I started from kinky bedroom play and much later added a FLR after we discovered she was more comfortable being dominant and I had a submissive side. I actually like serving her both sexually and non sexually, everything is on her terms. No more arguments, just lots of affection.

I've been journaling our experience here - https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/my-locked-journal.45216/

 

Welcome to our community. Enjoy.

 

Hi and welcome to the mansion, you’d be surprised how many men want to be submissive to their wives/ partners I was nervous about telling my wife but she loves the lifestyle now and I’m a way better lover than before I was caged, I love to please her and it seems you have a guy who wants you to be the star attraction and if he’s anything like me would let you take total control of him, if you’d like to chat more then please feel free to message me

 

There is no right or wrong way to do this. It's your way, and a lot of it can be the power trip you get by doing simple things like saying "no!". Putting a cage on, just reinforces it.

What do you get out of it? Well, whatever you want. That might be a back rub, foot massage, oral sex on demand, the kitchen cleaned, a glass of wine brought at the snap of your fingers, or just total respect.

Bring it on, and welcome to The Mansion.

A

 

Spoiled!

But just the way I like my woman.

A

 

Absolutely. For me, personally, I get off when Lady C gets spoiled and either seeing her happy and relaxed or on a power trip.

So do you have a plan yet?

A

 

Welcome and enjoy