Enforce the no discrimination rule

I thought I had made that fairly clear, but if it wasn’t, you are absolutely right both sides feel infringed upon.

 

Can we just ban threads that sole purpose is to debate anything about trans individuals or issues relating to them?

 

But getting castigated for being just a straight hetero male is OK ?
I think banning threads like that would be absolutely fine, as well as threads about being vaxxed or not, soccer as well as politics, etc
The Web is so big and has a place for everything.
Why must we endure the trans discussions in a place that is about male chastity and the admiring and worshiping of women ?
If a transitional person is interested in the technical aspects of chastity to hide/change its appearance…yes be embraced and welcome here, but leave all this other shit out of here.
What will be next then in here.
A hard fight about E-mobility or not, or maybe these things called „last generation“ and climate change, etc…..
This place is/was the only one that could be shown to our ladies to maybe gather infos, get help and loose their uncertainties about chastity.
Let’s try to keep this wonderful island like this.
And to just set one thing straight here.
I am absolutely not against transitional people or anything at all. But I am fed up with that Drama Shit they tend to start if they ever get some head wind from different minded/thinking people

 

Who cares if people are upset at Lucy, she's not here to please everyone

But these threads only exist to argue and spread hate

There are a seemingly endless amount of sites you can argue about trans people

Why can't the policy be, hate what you want, but take it somewhere else

Telling someone how they should feel about trans people is no different than a guy here telling a key holder how many orgasms they should give their sub

Feel how you want, but don't try and define something for someone else, no one EVER changes their opinion after hearing one they already disagree with

 

I have no intention of creating an argument here because there's been more than enough bad feeling from all points of view lately and its creating an unpleasant atmosphere for everyone.

I'm not singling out anyone for their own thoughts but one of the male members already commented saying 'Why must we endure Trans women?' Well its a fair point isn't it from his point of view, especially if you're completely focused on the FemDom aspects of chastity, which many of you certainly are. But I have to ask why is it some test of endurance if you want nothing to do with Trans women anyway? The Trans discussions are consigned to a kink section of the forum, it couldn't be more buried away from those who have no interest in reading about it. So if you go there and bring your dislike into it in a hostile and quite offensive manner then really the problem is one of your own making.

Now let me just stress here, being Trans for us is no kink so we have to also endure something we don't particularly care for being in that forum section anyway. And seriously don't compare the feminising and hyper sexed aspect of sissies because that isn't what Trans women are about either. In fact being lumped together is clearly sending the wrong message about Trans women to some of you. A Trans gallery category would be a nice idea too, that way those of you who are very offended can easily avoid it.

Nobody is saying you can't have an opinion on things and I welcome reasonable discussion. All that's being said is a little bit of common decency and respect for fellow members would be preferred. I have always kept to my own areas on this site and only ventured outside them when I can answer a question or give a point of view on the relevant subject. Anyone who wants to chat with me as a Trans woman is welcome to do so and I make it very clear who I am in my profile, I deceive nobody. As such I am also harming noone. But when you say very rude things to people they will certainly respond in kind and not roll over and take abuse. That would be weakness.

Now look at it from another angle, if Trans women were constantly coming into threads that were not relevant and they started asking 'Why are you lot doing this sort of strange thing? Doesn't it sound kind of stupid?' Well... you wouldn't like that at all, nobody would. It would be very much along the lines of shaming people, so to spin it around coming to those threads and shaming Trans women or questioning our views among ourselves because you don't like us is not okay either.

So if you follow what I've said logically and with a clear head you'll see what the real problem is here. It was allowing a Trans Woman who has no real member history to be verified immediately as female and giving her access to an area that has always been protected for those women. Now Lucy has her own reasons for everything she does but that one thing was in my opinion a grevious error and made in haste. None of you are ready for that kind of progression at this stage, it may be years even decades before we reach that point.

And its obvious why everyone got so upset by it... because it created a double standard. Suddenly a bunch of male members are crying 'this isn't fair', you have verified females saying 'anyone could come in here, we're scared of potential sex pests', you have some Trans women asking 'does this mean we can be included too and if not why aren't we?'

As a result what do we have here now.... total fucking chaos! The question is are any of you here willing to try to sort it in a fair and kind way for all parties? Because until this dies down, its going to repeat itself again at some later point.

This site is supposed to welcome all, so lets accept we now have diversity here, that is a fact. Nobody has to like it but I hope people can at least learn to tolerate one another and respect their feelings even if we don't all personally like each other.

 

What's the point of the thread?

To talk about kink? Or debate things about other people you don't like?

 

Then I ask why is change desired when a large proportion of the user base are so vocally against it and actually questioned your decision? Wouldn't some form of compromise be the best option for the moment and you can consider more dramatic change later after a period of adjustment if you so choose?

 

Thats not the issue here, the root cause was your verifying someone and going against the wishes of the vocal part of your community which I suspect is a significant amount. If you really wanted that change to be made because you felt it was right to do so you would have simply been Lucy of old and said 'my way or the highway!' When you've wanted something enough you have done it without debate and anyone who questions you has always fallen into line because you set that example to them.

 

I get the distinct impression that cowboob sees two neat categories of people;

1. Transphiles
2. Haters

And if you disagree then you clearly fall into category #2.