Ladies, what do you most value?

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    #1 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 21, 2013
    Prompted by a discussion at a fetish event I attended last night. Mistresses I was wondering what skills you most value in your submissive male?
    Gents what skills do you have that you think your Mistress values?
    I will start the discussion by saying I love that My sub can cook
     
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    #2 Joroincharge, Jul 21, 2013
    My subbie has now become excellent at housework (wasn't originally though - he had to learn the hard way -:))
     
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    #3 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 21, 2013
    I'm sure he appreciated all the 'encouragement' you gave him! It really is a skill I appreciate in a sub too
     
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    #4 Joroincharge, Jul 21, 2013
    O yes. Substandard work has had Consequences (O-Os getting serious :spank:) right from the start.....amazing what an incentive this was...LOL!
     
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    #5 Caged Wolf, Jul 21, 2013
    Mistress's, with respect...

    I do the housework, most of the laundry (my Mistress occasionally helps of her own accord), clean the kitchen (Mistress cooks, though I am a very good cook also), Tend the garden boxes, etc.

    BUT, I think the one thing Mistress values most is being attended to, between drying her after her shower and turning down the bed, then tucking her in... I think I may ask Mistress if I am correct, though.
     
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    #6 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 21, 2013
    Caged Wolf thanks for your reply and I would encourage you to check with your Mistress to see if you are correct
     
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    #7 Dumb1, Jul 21, 2013
    With the greatest respect Miss i believe the greatest skill a sub can possess is to make his Mistress Happy and conteneted in whatever form or task that entails.
    slave stroppy
     
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    #8 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 21, 2013
    slave stroppy I wholeheartedly agree with you.
     
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    #9 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 21, 2013
    I'm currently teaching my sub pedicure and manicure skills :)
     
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    #10 Dumb1, Jul 21, 2013
    My wife has me shaping then painting her nails and it certainly takes a steady hand
     
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    #11 Caged Wolf, Jul 22, 2013


    Mistress Red Dragon,
    I have shown this thread, and my reply, to my Mistress, and she confirmed my answer was indeed correct. Thank you for your interest, and reminding me to ask her.

    Caged Wolf
     
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    #12 toyness, Jul 22, 2013
    One of the traits that i bring is my alertness. when we go out i am focused on her and those around to the exclusion of most other things. If i see see needs a drink, BAM, i'm there with a drink If she needs a light BAM i offer a light. If she has a purse or some sort of wrap she doesn't have to worry about it i have it. Also i am so in tune with the surroundings that no one gets close to her unless she gives the nod. But when im not needed i blend into the background. When we go to an event and someone asks about me or my whereabouts the answer from anyone that knows me is "look for the person that looks like a bouncer or security" Maybe security would be a better choice of words to describe what i offer her. That and i can satisfy her sadistic side with my masochistic tendancies.
     
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    #13 harddenial, Jul 22, 2013
    Mistress Red Dragon,

    I think what she most appreciates is my doing much of the laundry and the cooking. Our washing is hung out and I have had a chat with our male neighbour on several occasions while doing so! Yesterday we had about 25 guests for an afternoon party. I scrubbed the floor beforehand when my wife was out and was constantly cleaning dishes and cutlery during the party to keep the supply going. I served drinks to the guests in the garden. One male guest remarked to my wife "you have a good husband" and she responded "Yes, indeed I do," which made me feel very good.
     
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    #14 Epiladdy, Jul 22, 2013
    I take care of all the domestic duties and I don't mind tooting my own horn by saying I'm quite handy in the kitchen.

    I frequently give her pedicures that include long massages of the feet and calves.

    I have her erogenous zones fully mapped in my mind and know what effect each has and what combination to use to produce a desired effect.

    I am proficient in hand to hand combat and slightly hyper vigilant, so I'm able to play bodyguard to her and the kids if need be.

    I'm adept at the skill of transplanting spiders from inside the house to outside the house.
     
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    #15 Mistress B, Jul 22, 2013
    A veritable superman. I do hope you are not telling porkies. I would love to hear your Mistress's thoughts.
     
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    #16 xcitedsisssy, Jul 23, 2013
    Besides the laundry and most of the cooking especially outside from the grill. the most important chore of mine is to make sure the bathroom is spotless and sparkling always.
     
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    #17 Epiladdy, Jul 23, 2013
    I'll admit to being a crappy house husband, but I try hard. With a 5 and a 6 year old in the house, it's hard to keep things detailed and polished.

    When the economy tanked, I lost a pretty lucrative job. She was a stay at home mom at the time, but has skills that are in pretty high demand, so we swapped places when I got laid off.

    I don't really see any benefit to make up stories for a group of anonymous individuals. There's just no benefit to it.
     
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    #18 Miss_Red_Dragon, Jul 24, 2013
    It does seem that there are some excellent Mistresses out there training excellent subs and slaves. What about skills you don't have at the moment that you think would benefit your Mistress?
     
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    #19 Mascara^Snake, Jul 25, 2013
    His cooking could be improved....
     
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    #20 harddenial, Jul 25, 2013
    One skill I need to develop is not to hang about after her orgasm so she feels obliged to play with me when I know she's already thinking about other things. This morning after an hour of pussy worship and several orgasms for her I forced myself to just say "coffee then?" which was met with (perhaps undue) enthusiasm!
     
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    #21 Mistress Deborah, Jul 25, 2013
    The thing that I most value in my sub/slave is the fact that I can be myself around him at all times.
    Whatever guise I take he is there for me and he knows just how to treat me at different times.
    He is a wonderful listener and husband - he can also give a mean pedicure , cook brilliantly and is truly excellent at eating pussy - he's a gem ;)
     
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    #22 Dumb1, Jul 25, 2013
    well remember Mistress Deborah Gems are always best kept locked in a safe!;)
     
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    #23 Dave Francis, Jul 26, 2013
    Thank you for starting this thread. For us un-owned subs it is good to know the skills we should try and develop before our services are called upon. I no longer regret my couple of years as a chef, seeing as cooking skills have come up quite alot.
     
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    #24 jemima, Jul 26, 2013
    im a lot better at cooking than I was but I do still try to do better with cooking. Another Mistress's sissymaid is very good at it and has showed me a lot about doing sauces.
     
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    #25 windrush, Jul 26, 2013
    I pride myself on making pretty good cider, from my own apples. This is equally good for drinking or cooking, or even both simultaneously. Surely this would please a Mistress, should I ever have one.
     
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