DrChastity
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  • But that's okay. I learned a lot about myself. Like... I'm pansexual. Who knew? And that I need a Keyholder who is actually VERY dominant...
    Well, I'm free. Literally and figuratively. I broke up with my Keyholder/Master/boyfriend. So it's back to the search...
    I've been locked for 15 days by my new KH (who's also my new boyfriend) with a min of 11 more. We met, and then he took charge. So dreamy.
    Luckily I found my KH before this COVID-19 hit. I hope to stay locked for it's duration. My KY is also my boyfriend and Master. He's into it
    My boyfriend's digging being my KH, finally! He loves Chastikey. I've been locked 15 days with 12 more min. He's also my Master.
    Yes! Finally! I have a Keyholder, AND we've also started a Master/slave relationship with bdsm & CD aspects. He helped me accept who I am.
    My wife and I are really benefiting from a book we just discovered – it’s by Ms. Rika. Uniquely dominant. The layer method she proposes and also her description of how DS does not require Sm and Bondage is quite helpful. She has a lot of good frameworks to help a woman customize their own version of DS It might be something your wife could get very interested in along with chastity.
    I pleasured my wife while in chastity and she seemed way turned on. She said she wants more. I stayed locked. Is she coming around? Finally?
    I've trying a couple of social websites to meet someone to for some vanilla fun to start with but it's slow going. But I'm making progress.
    Been considering the implications of not having a keyholder on my state of mind. Bet it's sub-optimal. Sure I'd perform better if I had one.
    Making some progress. Made an acquaintance with a local domme and amazingly, I'm making some progress with my wife. Slow, but progress.
    I'm trying to post a new video but I can't get it to work. I never see an 'upload video' option.
    I got two new cages in the mail today so I've been trying them out. They're wildly different from each other so we shall see.
    Well, some of you fine people posted some good advice, I think. I would never proceed with another before clearing it with my wife, btw.
    I'm going to start putting more effort in finding my keyholder. I know there's someone out there for me and I am so very ready to serve....
    My wife has only become more sexually distant. I'm pretty bummed that I can't find a keyholder. I think i'd make a pretty decent slave. Grrr
    titaniumjones
    titaniumjones
    I suspect that her distance is due to how she views you. I'm guessing, in her mind, you are some sort of deviant or pervert. You need to change her view of your perversions (Yes, they are perversions) and show her the benefit and you cant do that by ramming your perversions down her throat.
    titaniumjones
    titaniumjones
    I have been through a similar experience with my wife. To get past this we had to work on the intimacy first. Then you can begin to work on other areas of your kinky personality. This is not a quick fix situation. She may never be Mistress material. If you go Mistress hunting you may loose your wife. My recommendation would be to self lock and work on intimacy with your wife.
    I'm close to giving up trying to convince my wife to be my keyholder. I must find someone else. Which gets complicated. Hmmm....
    M
    Ma’ams Slut
    Sorry to hear that . I hope she eventually comes around for you and her
    LadyBlaze
    LadyBlaze
    Why are you trying to convince her?! Is she actively trying to change you to not be in chastity? Just give her all the benefits of a man in chastity, don't have any orgasms, do everything she wants. Focus on her..
    So it went pear shaped with my first ever Keyholder. Had not considered failing as a sub. But what a great personal growth opportunity.
    I'm really hoping she say yes & decides to keep me locked up for far, far longer than I would ever imagine. That would be total bliss to me.
    As I prep to ask my wife to be my KH, I've been trying to extend my time locked (I self-lock now (ChastiKey)). I'm up to 6 days, my new max.
    Working away, locked up using Chastikey. Wearing the new fetish heels I just got. I should definitely order another pair in my wife's size
    Just received some crazy sexy 6" platform stilettos with ankle straps. I'm hoping my wife likes them and makes me worship them, tongue only.
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