Hello. I'm 3 hours east, an hour north of Toronto. When we met 40 years ago I was her dom. That changed a long time ago. i do what she tells me, which isn't a lot. Kitchen, cat littler, vacuum, and whatever. Sexually, one jerk off a week on Friday which is a lot. I'm looking at that release and how it would work best for me.
Oh, I don't THINK they know. My Wife is very private, or at least has preserved most of our private life when I'm around. She does call me "Boy Toy" in front of others, but that can be taken as innocently playful. But of course I don't know what they've talked about when I'm not there.
Peace!