Ruined Orgasm Ideas?

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  1. MyBlackMistress
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    So I need some ideas for ruining a slave's orgasm.
    Whatcha got for me?
     
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    Makes him to have an orgasm inside the cage, it´s sooo frustating giggles
     
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    Yes I agree with that one and it equals minimal to zero satisfaction
     
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    In my case having an orgasm inside a cage is rather impossible because of the KSD-G3. About 3 months ago I had an accident while being washed by my wife. It was extremely frustrating for me because I was obediently keeping my hands behind me all the time.

    I've heard about "thumbing" an orgasm but my wife hasn't tried it yet. Here is the method :
    "When your guy gets ready to shoot that load simply press your thumb firmly over the hole in the tip of his cock. Press FIRMLY and hold it until all the jerking, or spasms, stop. It may take about 30 seconds or so, just be patient. Once you release your hold on his cum, it may squirt one time, but that should it. The rest, if any, will simply ooze out. "
     
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    Coming or just ejaculating whilst locked is very much not a satisfying experience; And I don't just mean frustrating. ANy king of ruined orgasm is I think better than coming whilst locked. Also I found that it is most uncomfortable after, hard to explain to someone that has not experienced it and if they have then no explanation necessary I suppose. If the ejaculation was anything more than a big accidental leak it feels as though my urethra isn't properly empty even after peeing. Peeing can give you the feeling that you are about to start with cystitis or something. It takes maybe a day for these sensations to go away and there is alwyas the concern that they won't and you really have got something wrong.

    My partner really does not give me any hint of when my next orgasm will be, its safe to expect that it it will usually be a few weeks minimum and she has often hinted at it being MUC H longer and measuring in months not weeks. So being forced to come whilst locked potentially means that it could be a very long time before being allowed to come whilst unlocked, or even being just unlocked for an hour or so.

    You have the dopamine loss to deal with too. I hate that so much I sometimes think that to avoid all that emptiness and negativity I should stop considering permanent denial and ask for it. ALMOST.
     
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    although i dont give any orgasms to slave, per say, i so enjoy rubbing and teasing his little locked toy till it drips. and sometimes he really drips and moans. his poor little dicklet trying desperately to find relief, only to be held nice and tight by his metal cage. mmm get hot thinking of it!
     
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    The best ruined orgasm I ever had was when her husband walked in on us unexpectedly just when I started to cum.
     
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    Electro stimulation while wearing a Birdlocked Pico is not that comfortable. No way to resist cuming either.

    A very much not a satisfying experience...

    pico1-600.jpg
     
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    Anyone have any experience of being vibed to ejaculation while still in their device? Would be interested to hear how it went.
     
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    Now THAT is something I'd like to try...... :rolleyes:

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    My wife has tried many times before being locked and after. Seems that I cannot cum from a vibrator. I need the pumping friction part. I also have a very hard time cumming laying on my side or standing up. Go figure.
     
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    I've been frustratingly close. Like I leaked a little but it wasn't a full squirt.

    It was terrible and wonderful and exactly what I deserved.
     
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    I have been able to ejaculatein all my belts (including My-Steel) EXCEPT the Neosteel Arch.

    The Arch is quite frustrating...
     
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    That sounds very promising! Thank you for this comment.
    What methods did you try?
     
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    For the My-Steel belt, watching porn or stimulating gf while grinding against the inside of the tube for about 10 minutes was enough. I had been in the bet for some days and was very motivated.

    With the cages, either electro play or a strong vibrator on the perineum, under the testicles. Took some 5 minutes. I can also escape any Cage, no matter how tight, by simply pulling out.

    The Arch is too tight for grinding and you can’t get a vibrator on the right spot...
     
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    This is the closest to an orgasm I have come while locked up... A clear liquid, no pleasure or release. No way to get out without the key ;)

    precum[1].jpg
     
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    Sorry, could anybody tell what is "vibed"? English is not native for me and i could not find this word in a dictionary

    Regards,
    K.
     
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    Vibed. When some part of the body is subjected to a vibrator.
     
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    Thanks a lot, Mistress B.!

    Regards,
    K.
     
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    I've had this done to me quite a few times. It still feels good but the frustration remains, so I'm not quite sure it's elevated to the ruined orgasm category. It's a different kind of frustration too and I can only describe it as that crazy need to touch yourself and stretch coupled with a desire to orgasm for real.
     
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    I am finding this is the only method I prefer for now. For me its a different kind of orgasm, whether done alone or with my KH/GF.

    I have edged myself for hours or even days using a vibrator while locked. Obviously multiple sessions in a day not all day long. After the 3rd or 4th day of doing this, I notice during the sessions that I leak pre like crazy. I absolutely love this. Sometimes its just flows with out knowing, or I can actually feel a squirt of pre come out, THAT is an amazing feeling.
    There have been times locked up I will edge myself like this a couple days prior to my KH/GF coming over. When we do mess around I have the same flowing of pre. She seems quite excited knowing that we have only made out and messed around with out her touching me and my panties are soaking from pre.

    I find if I am doing this by myself. When I do 'go all the way' I am in panties. I take the vibrator and run it up and down or sometimes just wedge it in-between my thighs and lay there and kinda move my hips around, kinda like humping for lack of a better term. When I feel the actual ejaculation about to happen I try to contract my muscles to stop it, and unless I turn the vibe it happens, its a mess in my panties for sure, it seeps and spurts out in a couple jolts or waves. The wetness sets in, the build up excitement feeling is gone and I am laying there in embarrassment over what I have done to myself. It will wash over my body. Again embarrassed, feeling emasculated, ashamed. I will lay there a while in this feeling before cleaning myself up, and for whatever reason I enjoy it.

    KH/GF has done it to me a couple times, and the feelings are the same, however she will add verbally to the humiliation that I am already feeling.

    I agree I am not sure if its the level of ruined orgasm category, and there have been times I find myself wanting to touch myself. One time I remember after KH/GF did this to me, we laid there a while then I was permitted to clean myself by unlocking as I pulled it out and the cum coated cage it was mental let down cause I wanted to stroke it but it wouldn't get hard again.
     
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    @Detra your cage is obviously too long. It is allowing you to get too excited, a smaller cage is needed.
     
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    Thank you @Mistress B

    I am currently on a cb6000sm.

    I have been looking at the holy trainer 2. I agree. I would like something more snug.
     
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    Hi Andrew love the pic. I'm intrigued by your experience. After reading it I did some research and found some ideas on electro sex but the only penis stuff I found were bands. What are you using on yours?
    thanks,
    Licks and Lashes
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    I was able to cum inside a CB2000 with a Hitachi Magic Wand. It was a ruined orgasm.
     
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