Do women want shrinkage?

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  1. The-Enigma
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    The irony of cuckold is wanting a bigger man's penis.
    Yet I recently read about some women wanting smaller cages to encourage shrinkage.
    Is this the psychological act of taking further control by their partners insecurity to cheat or consider it? Granted it would lead to commitment. Or is this the act of humiliation?
    I would like to hear from women, misteesses or mens honest experience please.
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    shrinkage if any is mostly temporary.
    But a smaller cage would mean less chance of erection in the cage.
     
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    Is it the other way round maybe.
    The husband is rather small with a low sex drive and thus she starts to think bigger might be fun .

    The husband might have a tendency to being sub or rather the wife is a bit more dominant or a bit of both.

    So things start to conect, and the jigsaw falls into place.

    Now how often it conforms to the er industry standard of very sub locked sissy humiliated very complient husband and the often black bull I don't know.

    However there are so many sites and tumbler blogs devoted to that template that we are definitely in the smoke and fire area.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    I dont think women are as "hung" up on size as you lot are. :p

    With any of the men I've had in chastity I've never thought I wanted it to shrink, or fall off, or grow. Lol.

    I'm also not really a size whore. Huge cocks are more bother than anything... Belly ache and bleeding after sex, jaw ache after blow jobs :oops:

    A lot of this "size play" is con-cock-ted by chastity seekers as part of the thrill of humiliation.

    (Too early in the day, I need coffee or I'm going to keep cumming up with daft puns) :D
     
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    I want a smaller cage yes it's dangerous to say want! I would like a smaller cage looks so much smother then a ugly lump in my skirt.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    IMO shrinkage is a definite added bonus but only so long as you don't want it for yourself!
     
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    Personally I welcome as much shrinkage as possible -but the nI would wouldn't I x
     
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    I 'll agree that size doesn't matter that much as long as it's extreme into anyone of the two directions. What matters most is part connected to the penis as he'd have to know how to use it. ;)

    As for shrinkage it isn't really a matter as long as one is allowed to get an erection on a regular basis (every month or so) as this prevents your cavernous body from degenerating / growing together.

    Last but not least it's not necessarily women heading for smaller cages. With us it was my boyfriend as bigger ones where he yould grow somewhat hurt when he started to get an erection..
     
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    Thank you all so much for your replies.
    What a lovely bunch if people you are.
     
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    When I started my journy I never gave shrinkage a thought.
    It was not until I got my Jailbird that I noticed the change.
    I have heared members say shrinkage is temporary I am not sure if thats true for me.
    As long as I am locked in my Jailbird its pretty much permanent.
    Do women want shrinkage thats a question for @Mistress Jules
     
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    Not sure I ever thought about shrinkage. It's not something that involves me much. @lockit locks it up and if he is very lucky then he may be allowed to take it out of lockup for a short while. Not something I concern myself with. Not sure I would want it to completely shrivel to nothing though, well not just yet ;)
     
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    lol, I don't think they just dissolve away, do they????
     
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    More puns please! ;-)
     
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    So the out come shrinkage permanent or not?
     
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    @Mistress B I think some would be happy if that happened . Xx.

    @Rachael_ most think not they do get big again once let out .

    Love the bit in the post from @Astarteabout the growing together.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    We were discussing the topic of shrinkage being caused by long term or permanent denial of erections. My ex who seemed to enjoy bringing up the subject from time said well I doubt it would happen until you were permanently denied and locked in too small cage and I'm not quite ready to discuss that just yet.
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    It seems to be either about humiliation, gender play, or the comfort of having a smaller device.

    For me, the comfort is definitely a motivation, and so is humiliation, sort of.
    I am not big on humiliation, but I really like power exchange and role reversal.
    Having a smaller locked up penis clearly feels just right in this regard.

    As for the reality of shrinkage, it happens quickly, and quite a bit for me.
    After a month, I lose about an inch. i'm not small, so maybe it's a case of the more you have, the more you lose :p
    As far as I am concerned, it is temporary, and reverts back after about a week unlocked.
    Which is a good thing!
     
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    my one goes teeny and when Mistress takes of my cage its like a worm. Its thin as well. When we go out and im tucked and then come back home and my cage goes back on, its gone back to what it was. That's still teeny but not shrivel.
     
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