What should I buy him or do to rock his world?

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    Hello.

    Explore his fetishes and figure out what REALLY brings him to his knees and EXPLOIT them...make him know you know his deepest, darkest fancies and fantasies and tittilate him with them. Make him know that this is REAL and not just a game...buy him some toys/clothes that reinforce your roles..AND USE THEM...don't let them collect dust in a toolbox. For me, if my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder would peg me I think my head would explode...if she did it regularly she might have to pry me away from her side to get some space! Haha! Consider letting him do you with a strap on...

    Although the words sound negative, to summarize: Exploit, objectify, control, dominate, titillate, tease and even humiliate and embarrass...none of this in a malicious way though...with loving eroticism.

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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    Thanks for your ideas! I think you've got me figured out pretty well. If not, read my stories.

    I think many (both men and women) think that you just lock a chastity device on him and that's it. However, that's just the beginning. It requires TONS of effort and work; yes, teasing, denying, sexual attention, acting provocative not to mention all the emotional and mental energy required. But like anything else in life, the more work you put into something, the more you get out of it.

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    I think maybe this thread got a little off track... Mostly my fault, I think I have ADD... Hey look, a squirrel!

    Anyway, I still want ideas about: What can I buy him to ROCK his world? (...and tease him, and make him hornier, and filled with more desire).

    I showed you our various chastity cages at the beginning of this post. Here is a peak into our "Toy Chest". All your ideas are greatly appreciated.

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    Lately I've been on a shopping spree on-line for Lingerie and Sex Toys. I just can't get enough!!!
    I now have lingerie ensembles like the 3 pictured below:

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    My favorite lingerie is Agent Provocateur. It is SO SO VERY HOT.

    Here is a video from their 1014 line: WARNING! If you're wearing a cock cage it will become VERY tight, I imagine.

     
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    I think one of the best investments I made was one of those "Impaler" things. It has an adjustable metal rod with a mounding for dildos or plugs on the end and a square metal base. So simple and so effective. it's a very minimal way to captivate him and it tidies away nicely too.
    I'm not sure what the generic name for them is but I expect someone here will know.
     
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    I believe you are referring to this ... http://www.discrete-sensations.com/product/CNVXR-RI960/the-anal-impaler

    and the Scrotum cuff is back in stock ... http://www.discrete-sensations.com/product/CNVXR-AE465/locking-mounted-cbt-scrotum-cuff-with-bar
    iCollection is a nice line of lingerie also ... http://www.discrete-sensations.com/category/172/Sexy-Wear?manufacturer=Icollection+lingerie ... I have been posting the full size images on tumblr ... http://discretesensations.tumblr.com/

    Now there is an Idea for teasing ... use the impaler or the scrotum cuff and lock him up behind (so he can see the screen easily) you while you sit shopping online for all things sexy, of course adding all kinds of things to your cart ... but then should you really order something, blind fold him so that his mind will have to image ALL the things in the cart not knowing which one you actually ordered (hell don't order anything just pretend to and he will be on the edge for days waiting for it to be delivered) .
     
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    In the standing position? or a different position ...
    There are many "bondage" devices that allow dildo attachment and are made of metal ... for example https://www.extremerestraints.com/d...e-steel-impaler-tower--medium-large_2484.html ... or something like this ... https://www.extremerestraints.com/dungeon-furniture_18/the-forced-orgasm-tower_2937.html
     
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    It's a bit like the second link you posted. I did a search but couldn't find it with retail searches or even images but I did find it in Videos.
    Still no help as to the actual generic name for it but this is the one: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57baff6be1ed1
    The video actually illustrates very well the beauty of this effective but minimalist restraint.
    I think if I were in that poor girls position the impaler would be running for his life once I was free. Hopefully she was well rewarded financially.
    Hopefully also it didn't involve her missing school :-(
     
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    OOOoooo Yes, I have not seen that version in a while, but I will look around for it the next couple days and if it is still available I will post the link.
     
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    That would be great if you could find a retailer for them.
    I have no idea where this one came from and I've lost touch with the original owner.
     
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    Since you seem fond of strappy lengerie. Have a look at bordelle from the U.K. My wife bought a few items from there and I almost broke through my metal cage!
    It's pricey but incredible quality and sexy
     
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    # 2 gets my top vote. all are very nice.
     
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    Thank you for the info... VERY beautiful lingerie. Yes it will be expensive for my husband, but I'm worth it. :D:):rolleyes:

    I posted the link here for those who want to see....
    http://shop.bordelle.co.uk/collections/shop
     
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    Ugh, they are properly fully booked now!
    That's what comes of recommending smaller manufacturers :-(
     
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    I just spent a very happy hour with Elle perusing the http://shop.bordelle.co.uk/collections/shop and http://www.royalblack.at/home.html web sites. She liked both, and wasn't put off by the prices.

    We have come a long way. It doesn't seem that long ago that she was at university and had to turn down the offer of going for a coffee break as she couldn't afford to buy a drink. Now she has a career that means I am able to work when I want as a freelancer and most of the time turn work down as she wants my company more than any money I can earn, which is peanuts in comparison to what she does.

    I am very aware of how lucky I am, and how much work has gone into earning that luck.
     
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    Damn! They are fully booked for now.

    I really had my eyes set on this one:
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    Thank you for the link; their work is truly exquisite!
     
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    Fully booked until 2018!!!
     
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    The last Item I purchased from them there was an 8 month waiting list. That was a couple of years ago now.
    I'll ask around and see if there's anyone else on the scene who's working to a similar standard.
     
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    Very interested here too @Mascara^Snake if you manage to find anything Ms S has informed me she is due a replacement !! So looking here :)
     
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    That is a hot corset, would love to be the one to do the lacing.
     
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