Hi @MissMarine and @Mary J. Johnson and welcome to CM. For a site that many women would believe is full of mad freaks, we are actually a very friendly bunch! If you have any questions about the Holy Trainer just ask, I will do my best to answer. It is the device that I have worn for exactly a week short of a year. It is very comfortable very quickly so it is a good choice for a starter. Your only issue is measuring him to get the ring size he needs. If you want to do it in secret you could pretend to tie his balls up with some string (no, seriously!) and then use the length of the string to work out the diameter that you need. There are guides online that show you how to do that. The HTv2 comes with four different ring sizes and they are the most important part to get right. As @Ccage4567 mentioned earlier, if you introduce it as a bit of a game and reward him with some sexual prize he will be hooked in no time! I wear mine 24/7 and absolutely love the way it makes me feel. At your age he will be putty in your hands in no time. It takes me two weeks to get to where I bet he will be after two days! You can slowly lengthen the time he spends locked up. And the most important thing is you both have fun.
Hey there! My girlfriend and I have just joined this week as well, we have barely seriously started experimenting with longer lock up this week! Let us know if you'd like any tips and suggestions for what has worked for us as far. We're both active on Tumblr and now on here!
Plastic is good for a start but for long-term you really need steel. Theother plastic starter is the cb6000 which has the advantage of not needing measurements as fits nearly all sizes.
Welcome pretty new here myself ! Femdom/ feminization relationship with my fiancé for just over a year. Her idea. Just placed in chastity recently. Have fun
Thanks again everyone I wasn't too sure about sharing my experience online, mostly because I'm not sure how my boyfriend would react if he found out. But I guess I could at least reveal that I actually ordered a Holy trainer with his hesitant approval. I can't wait to actually receive it !
I suspect that your getting Nicolas to participate will be much easier than most of us have encountered to get our woman to participate. Men just tend to think with their penis, so unless he's afflicted, you should have no problem in having your way with him!
@DonnaSue I don't really think that. Of course I don't know how difficult it is for a man to get his partner involved with chastity. But it's important for me to make sure he is confortable with it. For now, chastity is just a kink and I don't want our relationship to be weakened just because of that... And expressing my needs of enforced chastity is not an easy thing..
My experience of chastity is it has strengthened an already good relationship. Neither of us want to go back to how things were before, my Wife loves the new me and the way I respond to her.