Good Morning Everyone.
I want to start out by thanking everyone for giving me some much needed information over this past week. I gave my husband the gift of chastity about a month ago (with very little knowledge of what power it possessed for me) and quickly realized that I had a lot of research to do. The first three weeks were pretty overwhelming for me... but then I found this site and it helped guide me a little more. Now I am enjoying the process a lot more, and I believe he is too.
I found that there was a lot of information about men being really excited about being locked up, and a lot of hesitation from their wives or gf's... but there wasn't a whole lot of women openly speaking about what they were concerned about.... what their questions were.. until I got on here (and sometimes even still, it's the men who come on and say "she wants to ask"
We sat down in the beginning and set some guidelines. We don't do the whole "here's your chore list" We have a "meeting" once a week to see how it's going for the both of us so we aren't talking about it all week.
So... going into our 5th week... I have some questions, and feel free to give advice (but please remember, we are in the beginning stage)
Is there a certain "way" he should ask to be released? He cycles and cannot ride with it on, sometimes he decides to go for a group ride when I am at work... how do I handle that?
How many days does one usually go between release days?
How long is one usually released for?? Hours? Days?
How often do you tease? (does that count as a release?
He has trouble sleeping... It concerns me that he isn't resting... is that normal?
I also need better ways to praise him other than just sexual pleasures for me... Suggestions??
Thanks in advance for any and all feedback anyone can give, and I hope that this may also help any other keyholder out there who has the same questions, but just doesn't want to ask.
Happy Friday Everyone!!!
I want to start out by thanking everyone for giving me some much needed information over this past week. I gave my husband the gift of chastity about a month ago (with very little knowledge of what power it possessed for me) and quickly realized that I had a lot of research to do. The first three weeks were pretty overwhelming for me... but then I found this site and it helped guide me a little more. Now I am enjoying the process a lot more, and I believe he is too.
I found that there was a lot of information about men being really excited about being locked up, and a lot of hesitation from their wives or gf's... but there wasn't a whole lot of women openly speaking about what they were concerned about.... what their questions were.. until I got on here (and sometimes even still, it's the men who come on and say "she wants to ask"
We sat down in the beginning and set some guidelines. We don't do the whole "here's your chore list" We have a "meeting" once a week to see how it's going for the both of us so we aren't talking about it all week.
So... going into our 5th week... I have some questions, and feel free to give advice (but please remember, we are in the beginning stage)
Is there a certain "way" he should ask to be released? He cycles and cannot ride with it on, sometimes he decides to go for a group ride when I am at work... how do I handle that?
How many days does one usually go between release days?
How long is one usually released for?? Hours? Days?
How often do you tease? (does that count as a release?
He has trouble sleeping... It concerns me that he isn't resting... is that normal?
I also need better ways to praise him other than just sexual pleasures for me... Suggestions??
Thanks in advance for any and all feedback anyone can give, and I hope that this may also help any other keyholder out there who has the same questions, but just doesn't want to ask.
Happy Friday Everyone!!!