Hi everyone. I'm a 48yo, married man. I've been married to my wife to almost 25 years and I love her very much. Over the course of having 3 children, my wife gained a lot of weight and the sex pretty much dried up. I found myself masturbating to internet porn 4-5 times, sometimes more a week. About 9 months ago, my wife had weight reduction surgery and has gradually lost a little over 100 pounds. With that, a return of her libido. Not expecting to be back in the saddle sexually, my performance has really suffered. In an effort to regain my performance, I decided, with the help of a chastity device, to cut out masturbating to porn. I've tried wearing the device here and there for about a month and finally felt comfortable enough to tell my wife about it and give her the key. I've been locked and orgasm free for a week and a half so far. Hoping to be let out on Saturday for a little.
Welcome to CM. So your HOPING to be let out on Saturday! Thing is you gave your wife the key! So maybe you won't be let out. It might be a good idea if you did some exercises..... with your tongue! Just because your locked doesn't mean your wife can't cum! Hope you have fun, we have found chastity has added a whole new dimension to our sex life hope you do to!
Thanks for the advice. She started taking karate and she comes home all worked up from that. Total turn on and I plan on serving her needs Thursday when she comes home all sweaty.
Welcome. Was it hard to convince your wife? I agree with the others advice. Chastity will not work if you have expectations of when you will get unlocked. Its best to have faith in your wife as to when is the right time. Otherwise she will grow frustrated from not having any control.