So long for now...

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    Hi everyone!

    First things first - @Thatguyontheinternet and I have decided to take a break from chastity. No, it wasn't because we were bored or anything like that. He has been sick the last week or so, so I decided to take the cage off to take one less stress off of him (most of you know, he can take the cage or leave it anyway, since I was the one adamant about him wearing it). Yes, this was solely MY decision and he, of course, did not object to it in the least, lol! At this point in time, I am not sure when I will be re-introducing chastity. All I know is that we have been both enjoying this week immensely - sex and BJs (yay!!!!!!) almost everyday - and I LOVE LOVE LOVE PIV, so win-win for the both of us. I wanted to thank everyone on here for being so kind over the last two and a half years to us, it was really appreciated and I didn't want you guys to think we just dropped off the face of the earth. I will probably pop back in from time to say hello and see how everyones doing, but for now, we are very much enjoying each other and our newly-wed status;):D:love::kiss:
     
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    A sensible decision. If you're not well, then you don't need distractions that subconsciously add stress. Not only that, it will be something you can look forward to resuming and be associated with better times. The break to enjoy sex with freedom will be both a tonic for him getting better, and make a huge contrast when you resume. Wishing you both good health.
     
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    Congrats on your wedding! Hope all is well in the future!
     
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    Hope he gets well quickly and good luck to both.
     
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    Enjoying each other is the most important thing and quite frankly whether you indulge in chastity play or not is a decision you have to make and not be swayed by others. A great sex life, in whatever form it takes for you, is the success to a long and loving marriage. I wish you both the very best of health and a long and happy life together.
     
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    Hello @Thatgirl and I hope the @Thatguyontheinternet gets better soon and I hope it is not to serious.
    It is like a double edge sword if he is sick he is uncaged when he gets better her will be back in the cage again.
    Come back soon.
     
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    Good luck to both of you and look forward to hearing from you both in the future.
     
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    Best to both of you and thanks for the FYI - hope to hear back from y'all from time to time.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I will miss u both and hope you guys tons of happiness! In a few weeks he’ll probably be locked up tighter than Fort Knox lol
     
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    I'm not so sure about that. I know I love being free and able to have sex anytime. My key holder makes sure I'm not to used to it though.
     
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    Hi @Thatgirl and @Thatguyontheinternet ,
    Will miss hearing from you. Hope all is well for him soon. Please stop in and let us know how your doing when you can. Thanks for everything.
     
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    You can always flex in and out of Chastity. What's new and contrasting is often what's best.
     
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    All my very best wishes to you both. I do hope he gets better soon. But I also hope you will not leave us, whether or not you have him locked at the time. Even if you decide your future with him is purely PIV vanilla you will still have a lot to offer if only to others here.

    All my :love::love::love:

    Joro
     
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    “A strong woman builds her own world. She is one who is wise enough to know that it will attract the man she will gladly share it with.” E. Barrier.

    Stay strong @Thatgirl; love like a lioness and roar like thunder, but keep the whip close and that cage closer. You deserve the best.
     
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    I will be back, no doubt, as I do feel like you guys are friends and don’t want to stay away long-term. But for now, we are thoroughly enjoying each other. The cage is still out, just not on. And we will NEVER be vanilla, lol! Vanilla isn’t even in our vocabulary! What’s vanilla??
     
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    Please hurry back. I just feel you have a beautiful life of entitlement ahead of you. xx
     
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    Good luck and thanks for all of your contributions. Pop in from time to time, and checke up on us.;-) Will You?
     
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    I am happy for both of you that you find yourself in such a good place, but also sad to know you will not be contributing as much. You have been a fantastic real couple working through all the issues that building a chastity based relationship has to navigate. Reading about your experiences helped me enormously with my own journey. This made you a fantastic buffer from all of the nonsense that I find myself less able to cope with as time passes.

    Good luck.
     
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