I'm sure I'm not alone here... Who else will make a concerted effort to do things around the house for their Goddess/Wife such as laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc. in the hopes that by allowing your Goddess/Queen/Mistress to relax it will help put Her in the mood for worshipping later in the evening??? I know those of us around here tend to be subservient as a general rule; it's more of the thought that I'm hoping that by doing a little extra I'll be rewarded by being allowed to worship my Goddess and She'll have an orgasm. My sarcastic Neanderthal mindset equates this to the equivalent of expecting your Wife of being sure to do an extra good job doing the yard work or changing the car oil in order to be allowed the privilege of giving a blow job... Don't get me wrong, I LOVE this dynamic of where I find myself racing to be beat my wife to unload the dryer when hear the bell in hopes of being able to worship Her. I do get a chuckle out of all this and once again, I LOVE all of this!
I'm in the same boat. Besides just wanting to take up more of the household chores to help her relax in general...I'd be lying if i didn't admit some motivation is the selfish want to spend time worshipping every inch of her.
Yes I would be in the class. I also get pleasure from serving her and maybe she'll do something to me as a bonus
It’s not expected but it sure can’t hurt my odds!! She really doesn’t use it as currency, but we are both adults and know that the more I go out of my way to make her life easier, the easier it is to let romance poke it’s head in. She has a high sex drive so, me pleasuring her happens quite often, her reciprocating has become more of a treat for me and not really her. So sometimes I do a bit extra in hoping I’ve earned a treat.
I do as much as I can round the house for my Mistress, Having had 9 prolapsed discs over the last 30 years I’m always in some degree of pain and use morphine when needed but yes I do what I can and if my back is particularly bad she won’t give me stuff to do till I’m capable.
ive been doing this pretty consistently for a few months and hasnt really been paying off like I would've thought. She notices immediately if I miss something but unfortunately kink and sex rarely enters her mind with her new free time. Regardless i'll keep doing it, after all it has to be done.
I am certain that will be the case for me. Having been locked up before, I know that the mind is MORE than willing to do so much more to help out... in my own case being in Chastity really does mean more attention for my wife and more help with everything! I really am a firm believer that more wives should get their husbands locked if they feel hubby is neglecting his duties and generally being hopeless around the house! It works for me.... plus it’s a buzz! A win win situation!
well i do cos its my job but i do try my best cos when everthing is nice and neat Mistress is a lot happyier and its nicer for me then.
I do as much as possible most of the time, you name it. But much of it is far from ever being rewarded and is much expected. Rewards come when they come. But I do admit, I do try to do extra things at times with the hope of receiving some kind of attention or acknowledgment, in whatever form or shape that might take.
Virtually every day. There are some things I do routinely, and others that I just notice on a day-to-day basis. Typically, somewhere in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, "If I can please her just enough, then maybe she'll let me unlock." Of course, I think this also happens with most male-female relationships whether you are in chastity or not, LOL!
I totally went into chastity for the kinky sex part of it, but quickly found how much joy it brought me to serve my mistress. I've rarely done much housework in the past as I work full time and she doesn't. Once my mistress agreed to try chastity, I wanted nothing more than to show her my love and appriciation in anyway possible. Housework and back/foot rubs were what I found she appriciated most, and in turn she's shown her love in return by being the dominant queen I've so long desired. I absolutely love her and love being her loyal servant.