Very few devices are actually capable of preventing orgasm.

Yes that’s correct. I think my body would expel its fluids either through spontaneous ‘orgasm’ or ‘wet dream’ even without and stimulation. It’s just going to happen.

Most devices will prevent penile penetrative Sex, but we’ve been expecting more from the fantasy than that. We want no erections, no ejaculations. Not all these goals are attainable

 

However good our intentions, a frustrated guy will find a way to defeat his device, by nipple play, anal toys or the wand.

For me it is usually that 10 mins of porn with self edging play that goes too far.

 

This is spot on, in my opinion.

I've never tried to 'defeat' the cage. My devotion to my KH's happiness and guidance is far too strong for me to either tell Her I put in enough effort to get a measly, dribbling orgasm without Her consent and live with the disappointment She would rightfully feel, or by doing the same thing and hiding it from Her. My past was littered with really bad secrets and I know they always, always surface, eventually.

I would rather obey. Wear the cage proudly and build my will to levels that not even I thought I had in me. Make Her proud to have locked our cock up.

All of that is much stronger than some petty, self-induced orgasms that will be fulfilling for a few minutes before the disappointment kicks in.

 

No device will ever be able to prevent it, however I see it as a way to make it very unpleasurable. That usually discourage the wearer from attempting anything, expect for the very first time he realizes how painful it gets

 

I havent been able to get an O with my cage on, it hurt to much. Cant pull it out either. I wear the bon4 and its very effective in its job to keep it locked up. My wife will milk me but there is no orgasm , the cum just kinda leaks out but no great feelings.

 

I must of tried a goid 10+ devices and this is one of the areas I found disappointing.

I discovered rocking the base ring would help build the frustration but if I wasn't to careful I'd push myself over the edge.

I've also noticed I can be more sensitive to some extremely frustrating nocturnal emissions. I have felt that it may also be possible to trigger a mental orgasm by focusing on the PC muscle leading the penis to grind a little as it throbs inside its cage.

In the end a chastity device needs to be treated as a physical reminder to discourage any sort of sexual behavior. I don't believe they can provide a level of security our fantasies expect.

 

I think the vast majority of replies have missed the point of this thread, though I would never try to put words into the mouth of @Mascara^Snake!

I believe the idea wasn’t to have a discussion on how to have an orgasm in a chastity device, but rather to discuss how devices do not stop men having orgasms. The best answer for me was the one saying the problem is upstairs, not downstairs. The only device that can do anything about this is our brain.

After a month of denial all I have to do is lie on my front, make sure my device is tucked between my legs, and allow myself to get aroused. Within a few minutes there will be a sudden build up of pressure and I will have a ruined orgasm. Nice but not as good as old ones I had pre-chastity. So the only way to stop his is to literally override my desire to cum and turn over, and calm myself down. The only time I don’t have to do this is when Elle is actively teasing me.

 

I strongly agree it is the mind where we need to focus control.

It is where our temptations and desires fester. It is the first hurdle where we begin to stumble. If we can stay focused it is easier to resist temptation.

The downside is some partners like to push the boundaries of this first lair. Explore a fantasy mind fuck where they break down the psychological barriers holding back temptation by building up extreme levels of frustration. They are wanting physical barriers of security to ensure these temptations and desires go unforfilled.

 

Right now, I can't climax in my device.

I have a Lori tube made of bars with no testi ring. It is a very open design, meant to be light. At first I could not orgasm in it. Then I discovered that I could climax by rubing the underside of my glans. We added bars down there so there is no access. Then I discovered that I could climax by stroking on the sides where it was open. We added more bars to the shaft.

I thought I might be able to climax using a q-tip to stimulate my glans. That didn't work. If denied long enough I thought i might climax just by shaking and jerking the device on my penis. That didn't work. The device is tight enough that full erection is somewhat uncomfortable.

All recent attempts to masturbate have failed and only left me more frustrated. It is terrible to reach a point of frustration that I'll try to make myself climax only to find that I can not.

I'm not saying that I could never climax in my device. A good strong vibrator would make me climax in the cage. Those are locked in a safe. I could order a vibrator or go out an buy one, but I don't. That is a step too far. If I did secretly buy a vibrator I might as well just ask for release from Chastity.

So, for now, we have made all pathways to climax sufficiently difficult that I don't go down them.