So I have been spending some longer than usual time with jack, what with boyfriend away and jack having some well earned R&R. We have both taken to jack wearing a full head hood, just eyes and mouth visible, but both can be closed off when i feel it necessary. But what has really enhanced the relationship, is referring to 'him' as 'it'! Never would have believed the profound submissive effect that has ensued, purely from that 2 letter word. Good times!
Am assuming you've had him neutered, correct? Otherwise it still is he. Grammar matters in this mansion.
Since being owned and caged , with no chance of ejaculating the gender is moot. Castration would be a step up , because their would be no sleepless nights wishing to be given the pleasure other men are allowed. I'm called sissy, bitch, and constantly reminded I'm not a man. My Queen has a "real man" she sees . I have heard her speaking on the phone saying " I have sissy here cleaning , and it's doing a good job" . I enjoy the complete lack of self esteem I have been trained to feel.
We are with you on the principle that our sub should know his place. As @Mandynjack knows we tried a different option for a week when Ian was our pet dog and had to behave appropriately. Whilst no longer leashed the behaviour therapy has had a positive effect. As an aside we followed the suggestion of a small bell on his collar, but substituted the cage for the collar, and the bell is still in situ 24/7. We don’t call Ian it, probably habit! J&J XX
This depends. For intense neural impact, the hood is in place 24/7. This is essential for shaping and sustaining the right behavioural attitude. I call this 'landing the lifestyle'. Play is different, that's just for pure amusement, so the hood persists more randomly.
"It" is very powerful. For me, it has the effect of sobering me up instantly. I am not referred to as an 'it' often - its more at specific times I might be getting a little whiny or even assertive. Some examples from this year ... "It better change its attitude". [accompanied by 'the look'] "Its wants are not my concern". [accompanied by a genuine air of indifference] "Doesn't it have a kitchen to clean?". [accompanied by the head motion of 'disappear now']