I think about this a lot?

I can't 'like' this enough - do NOT approach women with your cock in your hand, caged or not. Approach women, especially on Fetlife, as human beings. Find and go to the local munches (casual gatherings of kinksters in a pub for conversation and socializing), meet people, of all stripes, and be open to friendship. Build some trust in the community. Be a human. Relationship(s) will come.

 

Well spoken! That is a solid approach that we all should use, in many areas of our lives! Treat people with respect and have some dignity!!

 

I enjoy it, but I introduced then bf now husband to it. We don't really have a FLR, but, when he's under discipline or in chastity, he has to follow rules. There are also certain things that can get him chastity or discipline and he's agreed to it.