Discomfort with underwear...

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    I'm currently using a knock off Holy Trainer from Amazon. Loving chastity, and have gotten myself to 8 straight days. Love the feeling, love the resteiction...hate underwear. Suggestions for not getting rubbed raw on the tip by your underwear? Happens with everything. Boxers, briefs, panties, doesn't matter. The worst is when a piece of fabric gets pinned between the head and the inside of the tube...and then gets pulled away. Ouch!
     
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    No clue and glad that I have not had that problem
     
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    A pad or some soft tissue paper can help. It tends to be stable against the tip and then your panties will slide/rub against it. Microfiber panties are also a good choice, they are super soft and stretchy, so they don't tend to rub. Good luck
     
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    Have you tried Seperatec or something similar?
     
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    I have little experience, but want to help. Also using super thin pads. i put them in tight female pants, unfortunately you don't like underwear. luckily i never had problems with rubbing like you. i need the pads mostly to avoid wet spots in underwear and pants. works best when i am caged, without cage i have to make sure my penis is positioned correctly.

    overall i feel very safe and secure since i am using pads. they help with my problem. yours is different, but maybe pads gonna do the trick for you as well.
     
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    Thanks for the input everyone. The journey continues. Maybe it's a fit issue. Guess that'll give me an excuse to keep trying new things
     
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    That’s unfortunate… sexy panties are a fetish for me and even when I have to wear boy short hipsters, I’m a little sad unless they have a cute pattern on them. Maybe change cages?
     
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    A little bit of toilet paper between cage and panties will pad it enough to protect glans that protrudes through bars. Or you can use a small piece of microfiber cloth
     
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    Sounds like crotch less panties and a skirt is your best option. :)
     
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    Actually, have your tried silk underwear? maybe something loose, like tap pants would be easier. that and loose fitting pants. my cage fits well enough that i don't have that issue, although i have some stretch lace panties that look gorgeous but are a bit scratchy to my sensitive areas after a while. guess those are designed for a quick show before being peeled off, lol.
     
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    100 per cent cotton may help
     
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    i got ones like that once for Mistress for a bday prezzy and She sayed they scatchy and She gived them to me and they was.
     
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    But you wore them for her, didn't you? I feel some lingerie is to make a pretty package look good, not necessarily to feel nice.
     
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    yes they look nice but i dint like them on for a long day and after i only wored them for a little bit and had piccy tooked and once at a party as well.
     
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    I’m uncut and used to have the same problem. I now wear seamless underwear and we bought some small ladies cotton socks (the kind for wearing with trainers) that I wear over my balls and cage, protecting my foreskin, catching drips and keeping me warm and snug. And my wife loves choosing which colour for me to wear each morning!
     
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    A different cage?

    A bandaid over the end?
     
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    Try an ankle sock, isolates everything. I use one when I'm riding my bike or wearing jeans.
     
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    oooh. giggle. :) my mom use to say to me Bless your little cotton socks.
     
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    That is so cute!
     
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    Another vote for microfibre here, and briefs or thongs, anything with a pouch. I Carnt stand boxers any more they don’t hold you in potion and you end up having everything pulled to one side or the other. As amusing as it is to wear female underwear a lot of it isn’t supportive, although I find bikini bottoms quite comfortable.
     
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    My wife has now bought me some fluffy Christmas socks which she thinks look really cute Ho! Ho! Ho!
     
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    oooh Santa Claus say that as well. i hope your new socks are nice and warm for you.
     
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