Hi all I’m a 48 yo single guy in the UK, exploring chastity, I’ve had several devices over the years, currently experimenting with a bird locked device, longest I’ve worn it is around 8 days very much wanting to explore FLR also chat soon!
Hey CB, welcome to CM. Was that 8 days a 24/7 stretch, if so that's a great start, how did you feel doing it? I think 2 weeks is the magic number for you to really appreciate what going without an orgasm feels like, so if you want a challenge, go for that. That doesn't mean you have to be locked 24/7 to do it, you can certainly take it off for a cleaning or even just to stretch, just as long as you don't pull one off. By the end of the 2 weeks you should feel a certain bliss, where you're at a constant state of arousal, which can be quite addictive. Once you do 2 weeks, you have a choice, do you have a quick wank for 20 seconds of pleasure and then have to reset the clock and start over, or do you go for 4 weeks? Then after 4 weeks, you have pretty much the same question. Eventually you will give in to your weakness because you don't have a keyholder and you will have to start over, but when you do get a keyholder and she can say "no" when the weakness kicks in, then your chastity really starts. Good luck and keep us posted on how it goes.
Thanks for your words! No it’s not my first device so I’ I’ve dabbled before, however this is the first device that I’ve been able to wear for long periods, it was a gradual thing, building up, to the 8 days. I did remove it a few times to clean, however I didn’t orgasm. I will try again and beat my record
hello @Compliant_boi and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well. and you doing the rigt thingy to take your time so that you can wear your cage for a longer time cos it better to do it slow than try and have it lock on your for ages and ages first.