This morning I was permitted by my keyholder to remove my cage for the day after a period of chastity. On my drive to work I was reflecting how it felt strange to be uncaged and how I had quickly defaulted to the caged feeling being normal. I was just wondering how many others find that being caged begins to become the default normal?
I have been wearing one for so long it would not feel right to unlocked ....it has got to the point where I love my cage and can't imagine been unlocked ...which makes my wife very happy indeed as she loves me locked
I am so used to it now, it is like it is not there most of the time. However, there are moments which are exceptions...
For the most part, it feels utterly normal and I'd never remove it. But for bike rides and my obsession with good hygiene, mine comes off from time to time. Absent those reasons to remove it? I'd prefer to wear it at all times.
When I'm allowed to take my cage off by my Wife(KH), I don't like it. Like others, I feel strange without it now. It helps that my Wife(KH) loves seeing my penis locked up and that she has the keys to any pleasure I might receive.
I'm locked 24/7 since October last year. A couple of times it's not gone back on at night. Woke up feeling abit lost. Feels like it completes me/us and goes well in our marriage. Luckily she has no intention of stopping anytime soon.
Guess I'm really the outlier here (again, lol). Maybe it is because EMC was really my Queen's idea, but after 24 hours free I start to enjoy my freedom once again. The ability to scratch where it itches or just touch myself. Of course I missed the horniness, but not as much as I enjoyed my freedom. Likewise when locked I cannot not think of the cage holding me. The hormones make it fun, but I would jump at the chance to be free even if I wasnt allowed to cum. The cage is there because it helps her to feel in control, and the more she does the sexier she becomes (which we both enjoy, of course).
Like most things, you will get used to doing something over time, and then when not doing it anymore, you will notice the void. Not rocket science.
Depending on how long I wear, I’ll feel naked without it. It gives me a feeling of comfort to have it on.
Iam on day 288, even though Iam self locked, when I remove for a cleaning, only about 15 min off, I cant wait to get it back on, it just feels normal
I just had an appointment with my urologist, so I was allowed to unlock for that exam. It did feel strange not to be locked! After being caged & locked pretty consistently for the past 2 1/2 years, both mind & body accept that as the normal state.
I have the the same feeling. I’ve been wearing 24/7 for the last few months. She left it off overnight the other day and I kept waking up to raging erections. It led to a lousy nights sleep.
Perhaps I'm only stating the obvious: If you are caged 24/7 you don't have to think about being caged, but if you aren't, then you think about whether you should be caged or can think of an excuse not to be caged. You are perhaps tempted to masturbate, depending on your libido level and partner's actions. Some people prefer a lot of options, some prefer few or no options, as there is less to think about. If it is locked, it is locked. I prefer fewer options. The experience of being caged 24/7 is certainly different than not. When caged you can't touch your penis, at least not easily, and conventional masturbation is out, caring for a cage penis is different than a uncaged penis. Do you want to hold your penis in your hand, or should you be able to? If you can't and haven't for a long time, you learn not to care. Some appear to progress to micro cages as a result, basically meaning no penis. I want to get back to 24/7, not sure exactly why, but this does seem to be a somewhat common theme. Perhaps more so for those who lack or lacked control over their younger selves, and had no constructive outlet for the penile activities.
It was pretty normal before, but now it seems like it's going to be part of me for a very long time, see why in my post
Yes it feels wrong being unlocked, like taking off your wedding ring or forgetting to put your wristwatch on.
I feel far more comfortable with it on- especially since I went with a proper fitting metal cage. Last week we went away with the kids and stayed in close quarters- I was told it was staying home. I understood why but man did I feel naked. As soon as we unpacked I showered, shaved and locked back up and immediately started feeling that buzz....