I posted the following in the bondage category but I feel like it fits here and I didn't know how to move it. Did anyone have any kink new years resolutions? It can be a resolution that you set or one that your partner set. It could be how long you are going to stay locked, How many orgasms you get this year, How you will serve your mate, or anything else kink related. Mine is below with some background and a fair amount of detail. But in short it is that I will sleep while locked in my dog cage anytime we take a nap and I am not allowed to sleep in "her" bed for Naps. For me, those of you that have seen my posts know that my wife is not kinky at all but she will sometimes do it for me. This usually is me topping from the bottom because she truly doesn't want to have to think about any of it. Or me self locking (chastity) and she is happy to keep the key for an unknown amount of time. She has said that she likes the cleanliness of the toilet and that I seem to want to please her a little more than normal. She has held the key for anywhere from 1 week to 5 months. Letting me out for hygiene probably 1-2 times a week and when she wants PIV sex. She keeps me locked if she just wants me to use my hand/dildo on her. If she lets me out for PIV she either tells me to wash and put away the cage or to put it back on when she is done with me. Another way is I will sometimes do self-bondage and wait for her to come home or find me. Then she decides what to do with me. Usually it is just untie me but sometimes she will play with me, have PIV, or give me a hand job. She does all of this for me not because she really enjoys it. That is why it is hard for me to ask her to do anything on a normal basis. And I don't just put myself in bondage often. Also if you have read my posts before you know one of my favorite bondage items is being locked in a dog cage. This can serve just to confine a naked submissive or can go far beyond that in the kink/bondage realm . From having limbs secured to opposite corners of the cage to bars being put though the gaps in the cage and forcing a certain position, to having a diaper locked on because I will be in there for 2-12 hours and can't use the bathroom, or forced in a position where I have a dildo in my mouth and can't pull off of it because of the bars holding me in a certain position on. So to the resolution. My wife has agreed to lock me in my cage (large dog cage) anytime we take a nap. We are under 40 but have no kids. My work if flexible and she doesn't work so we end up taking a nap from 3-5 days a week depending on what is going on. I am now to be locked in the cage for all naps. She controls how long I am in there/sleep. So far she has always got up and left me in the cage to sleep a little longer. She will come back whenever she feels like it to let me out. Yesterday she was leaving the house for a couple of hours and had me put on chastity and a diaper before getting in the cage. Thankfully I didn't have to use the diaper before she came back 4 hours later but I was really close. When I am in the cage she is free to do whatever she wants (obviously) and sleep in our king size bed and be comfortable, do things she wants around the house or even leave the house she has complete freedom. I am forced to be in a cramped cage with a dog bed and 1 blanket. So that is our resolution. Will it last all year-probably not. Will it last several months-I think it is likely. I hope to be able to get used to sleeping in there so I can actually enjoy the rest better. For now I get cramped and also turned on so it is hard to get a good rest. The rule is that I am not allowed to ask to change the rules or stop it except on the last day of every month we will talk about it. That would be my only chance to change things. Otherwise I have to suffer with what I asked for. It was made clear that even if I am napping before work (when I have to do the night shift) it will be in the cage. If I get sick and am sleeping during the day I still have to go into the cage and have the door locked. If she is out of town and I take a nap-it must be in the cage (but not locked) She will ask me where I slept. She might also have to give me permission to get out before I do so on my own (we are not sure on that part). So do you have any chastity, bondage or other kink resolutions you are trying this year? Please share them here if you do and feel free to give way too much detail-like I did ;-).
It's very interesting that you mention the dog cage. My Mistress, who is not super kinky but indulgent, actually came up with the idea of locking me in a dog cage last month. We haven't done it yet because we've had family in town. Her idea is to dress me up in my complete sissy maid outfit, chain me in the cage with my leather wrist and ankle restraints, posture collar, and spreader bar. This will give her access to peg me or take a strap on. One of her favorite punishments is making me watch terrible TV programming so she assured me that would happen once in the cage as well. I'm excited to give it a try!
We have done bondage in the cage as well several ways in the past (always initiated by me) But this resolution so far is just me in the dog cage while we take a nap. She did also put me in the cage the other day when she left the house without me. She went to the gym with a girlfriend and had me locked up (both ways) while she was gone. I have been in chastity since then during this lockup, probably 9 days so far. She doesn't like me to dress up so it has just been bondage in the cage. Funny enough when she went to the gym the other day I thought about dressing in fem while she was gone. I guess it is a good thing she put me in my cage since she doesn't like me to do that.
None here we dont bother will new year resolutions. I didnt click the bottom box because i dont think there silly at all if other folks do them that upto them ive no issue with them
Yeah I didn't really mean it like a real resolution. Or maybe I did I don't know. But I often see people here going for longer lockups or maybe only X number of orgasms for the year are things I thought people would respond to. But I like bondage as much as chastity so I was excited when I thought of this (It just happened to be around new year) And then when I was brave enough to talk to the wife about it and she agreed. Then I was really excited so I thought I'd share and see if anyone else was excited for new kinky goals this year
My only hope, not a resolution is my wife gets more confidence in herself which is a shame she doesn't because she is amazing, and takes a stronger role in my chastity, she does have moments of greatness but she doesn't believe in herself
i hope to get enough courage to ask for full denial for the entire year. no cumming outside the cage.
Well did she get a cage and have you been in it yet. I don't understand how she will peg you with you in the cage. If it has happened can you elaborate on how that works...wouldn't the cage prevent her from getting to your ass?
We haven't done it yet but it's going to happen. The idea is that you put your rear against the end of the cage and she inserts through hole in the cage.
I see. I wondered if that was it. I find it hard to do that personally in my cage because it it hard to get my ass close to the end of the cage because of my legs. If my cage had a way for my legs to stick out that would help. But the openings are so small I can barley get a few fingers out. When I back against the end of the cage my legs have to be folded which prevents my ass from actually touching the cage.