What other things are you denied?

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    #1 Staylocked, Apr 20, 2023
    Obviously we are all denied orgasms, erections, PIV, self pleasure to some extent in Chastity.

    What other things are you denied by your KH?
    Or are some of the above highly restricted?
     
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    #2 SubDee, Apr 20, 2023
    All of my anal toys are also locked up 24/7.
    Nothing comes out unless She allows it. I’m not sure I like the arrangement but She says that me having access to those toys do not benefit Her, even though they are just dildos and prostate massagers that can’t bring me to orgasm when I’m caged.
     
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    #3 IB-Chaste, Apr 20, 2023
    She goes too far!!
     
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    #4 Lazlo Toth, Apr 20, 2023
    I’d say that under lock, I am expected to show temperance in everything: food, drink, etc.
     
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    #5 littleguy3, Apr 20, 2023
    Add touching my penis except for cleaning and shaving, simulating my caged penis with anything, teasing myself via any other body parts. All are off limits.
     
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    #6 Shellysboytoy, Apr 20, 2023
    Alcohol. Mostly. I am allowed to ask, but....
    This has been great.

    1) I probably did drink too much
    2) had a tumor last year
    3) It sharpens my senses while I serve her

    Also, I'm not supposed to use my phone in the bedroom unless she is on hers.

    Both of these have made me better and healthier.
    She does this because she loves me, and it turns me on when she takes control over other aspects of my life.
     
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    #7 JaySaysYes, Apr 20, 2023
    She doesn't allow me to use powertools after three beers and no breakfast.
     
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    #8 Subbysubsub, Apr 20, 2023
    I’m not allowed to see naked images of women. My wife has the content filter set on my phone so any potential porn and NSFW sites are blocked (except for chastity mansion surprisingly).

    I’m also denied access to money. I know that can be a touchy subject here on CM but since we’re married I’ve relinquished control of all the money to my wife. I don’t have a dollar to my name unless my wife gives it to me.

    I’m also denied privacy. My wife makes me keep my location services on so she can track my location 24/7. I couldn’t go somewhere without my wife knowing.
     
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    #9 Kiye, Apr 20, 2023
    I think those are excellent positive things to be denied and shows real care! I'm considering doing the same for alcohol except for the occasional glass of wine.
     
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    #10 JaySaysYes, Apr 20, 2023
    I'm denied the use of the letters D, F and G on Sundays and wednesdays that are even calendar days.

    It's really difficult. I am so fucking glad today is Thursday and I can express myself properly.
     
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    #11 Deleted member 100175, Apr 20, 2023
    slightly off-topic, and maybe a given, but after having unilaterally promised her to give up masturbation a while back I'm curiously disinterested; even whilst out of cage & unsupervised

    this week I'm away three nights / four days & climbing the walls here alone & dreaming of sex, *but* if I was unlocked there'd be no inclination - weird ...
     
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    #12 Lazlo Toth, Apr 21, 2023
    Is it me? Or was that one of the funniest responses in the history of the Mansion?

    My swollen balls are about to burst due to laughter.

    And NO breakfast!

    Thank you Jay. NOTHING can dampen my spirits today.
     
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    #13 BavarianWoman, Apr 21, 2023
    Februar 30th is the hardest?
     
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    #14 BigWoodsmanLittleWood, Apr 21, 2023
    I’m also disinterested in masturbation even in rare moments of being uncaged or unsupervised. Chastity changes the way I think.
     
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    #15 BigWoodsmanLittleWood, Apr 21, 2023
    My wife is about to start limiting my alcohol consumption. I’m a weekend drinker but it’s probably going to become less.

    She really hates me looking at other women or the idea of porn. I was on another app where I shared pics of her nude (with her consent), but after chastity she made me delete it because there were other nude women.

    She’s steadily controlling more and more aspects of my life and free time.
     
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    #16 Kiesela, Apr 21, 2023
    She monitors and filters my internet use with the "Norton family App"
    From her mobile she can see what I search for and block sites.
     
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    #17 BavarianWoman, Apr 21, 2023
    You seem to be on a remarkable transition.
     
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    #18 JaySaysYes, Apr 21, 2023
    Every damn year!
     
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    #19 littleguy3, Apr 21, 2023
    Yeah. This is one I forgot to put on my list. She expects me not to look at porn. Before chastity, she didn't know I was viewing it. Once I confessed my PMO habit, she expects me to be accountable to her about any violation. Viewing porn and masturbating behind her back and then lying about it creates a toxic environment in the home. Sex therapists call it "the secret basement". It's like having the deadly gas radon in your home. Odorless, invisible and lethal to a relationship! And women have a 6th sense about those things.
     
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    #20 knightly, Apr 21, 2023
    Don't get that idea started...only allowed orgasms on Feb. 30 (which apparently has been a thing). :)

    Feb. 29th would be enough of a challenge.
     
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    #21 littleguy3, Apr 21, 2023
    Uhhhhh, Feb 29th would be WAY too much of a challenge! Don't joke about stuff like that!!! :confused: Haha
     
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    #22 Missy Tanya, Apr 21, 2023
    Only Feb. 29th a great idea. Something to add to my lists.
     
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    #23 BavarianWoman, Apr 21, 2023
    2024 will be a leap year
     
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    #24 filltee, Apr 21, 2023
    After a comment my Lady made some years ago about pornography and her opinion of men that look at it coming across as almost if not actually addicted to it
    I voluntarily promised not to look at any more.. and have not
    Although I would scarcely describe myself as having been even a casual watcher never mind an avid one
     
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    #25 Andylocked, Apr 21, 2023
    Normally when I go down on my wife, I absolutely LOVE it while she strokes my butt and everything else down there!! especially when she starts fingering me with one or two fingers at the same time as I’m licking her - since chastity, even that small pleasure is denied to me over half the times now….. she reminds me it’s HER time, not ours, or MINE….. but HER time so she wants to enjoy what I do without distraction…..
    which is right….. obviously!!
     
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