Balls Are Aching

Once so far this year, and she says that was the last ever since she doesn't really like the effects orgasms have on me, and I tend to agree.

My balls get achy but it passes.

Coivid made my balls ache more.

 

I know you probably don't want to hear this but, your body will adjust to it's new norm. The ache is normal and that is what, IMHO drives us in service to our KH's. You'll do just about anything for her right? Licking your wife being caged and denied, you lick her like a starving man. Yes, our KH's really enjoy the servitude!
I drip like a faucet when pleasing my wife. She LOVES it.

I think we all feel the same way. I'll go months and months without any form of relief. Some on here go much longer. Your wife will unlock you when she feels you deserve it!

It's good time for her to start training you to eat your load. Right now, you'll agree to anything for some relief.

BTW, that's how it started for us.

Good luck, I'm happy for and your wife!

 

well said

 

You'll get used to it, it's a normal part of being a locked husband. Once I hit three-four weeks or so that deep submission sets in and I dont want to spurt.

 

Accurate af. That blue ball pain and the urge and drive to do anything to get that release is *literally* why many women come to embrace chastity. That's the whole point of it, in fact - to put you into a mindset where you'll willingly serve her needs and not your own.

As for it being "healthy" or not, it's not unhealthy. If she doesn't allow you to ejculate, you'll start leaking and this is perfectly normal - it's the body's way to of divesting itself of built up prostatic fluid and whatnot.

This is also important. Don't start begging and harassing your wife to let you out or give you a release. She'll do it when she is good and ready for you to have one. Until then, suck it up and just handle it. It'll take some getting used to, but as has been said, it'll become your new normal and you'll get used to it.

 

My Madam thinks balls should ache! But as others have said it will pass, and you will have random releases of fluid.

 

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Caught the wrong button! Edited now.

 

There are so many.

 

It’s cause I’m posting from my iPhone, as I’m left handed! I keep catching the post reply button with my middle finger while I type with my index finger, it’s so annoying! Lol!

 

lol I mean, that's not inaccurate.

 

My GF says it's a reminder that I am locked for her and by her.

 

I think the achiness is psychosomatic. The body will get rid of any extraneous fluids all by itself, so full and aching balls aren't really true. Good luck.

 

Blue Ball Syndrome is not pshycoseymantic at all, it is a very real thing and it hurts. However, it does pass after a day or two. Being constantly aroused with no orgasm causes a build-up of seminal fluid and your tubes get congested, causing pain.

I find that spraying a shower head as cold as you can bear onto your balls and pubic area reduces the congestion and does bring some temporary relief from the pain.

When the pressure builds sufficiently, I also experience involuntary releases of seminal fluid, while flaccid. This happens without any orgasmic feelings at all and I have no control over when and where it happens, but it's not unpleasant and it also relieves the Blue-Ball pain.

At some point, it just stops hurting. I am told that with extended periods of denial, your body gets used to the new regime and Blue-Ball syndrome ceases to be a problem.

 

I only had thisonce on my chastity lofe. In the early beginning. I felt it on the roght egg for 2 hours and that was it.

I guess ylu somehow pinched your funiculi.

 

I've found that a cold compress and ibuprofen help with blue balls.

 

What kind of cage are you wearing - does it restrict full arousal? I hope not something with a hinge. I guess it doesn't have to be metal, but imho, the subtle additional weight helps keep the penis pointed down. I guess what I'm getting at is does your cage stifle an erection or let it get too far along? For me, when my erection wasn't stifled, I was running into the blue balls thing and I really don't any more.

I've just got a simple metal ternace from amazon for like 30 bucks. I'm sure their are better, but what I noticed is the subtle additional weight of metal kept my cock pointed down - still totally getting aroused and filling up all of the time, but no run away boners where my cage isn't doing it's job.

Godspeed!

 

I just looked for a ternace and didn't see anything. Can you please post the link?

 

Sorry for the typo ... search on "ternence"

Here is their store:
https://www.amazon.com/stores/TERNENCE/page/DAF15518-05E0-4946-A51B-03FE9DF14A19?ref_=ast_bln

Here is a no frills cage for someone of average size that I wear 24/7 off and on for weeks at a time outside of cleaning. Just need to figure out the width. I had started at 50mm and found a tighter 45mm to be more comfortable as it would do a better job of allowing arousal but stopping a boner etc.
https://www.amazon.com/TERNENCE-Medical-Stainless-Chastity-Device/dp/B07DVL7GKB?ref_=ast_sto_dp&th=1

 

When I compain about ache to my mistress she glows with joy and usually says something like, "poor boy, you're doing great." It's not pleasant but I accept as part of the sacrifice of giving up my sex in return to be dominated by Her which is a great privilege. I'm careful not to make it sound like a complaint but to let her know the effects of keeping her toys locked up which She deserves to know for putting the effort into keeping the key.

 

One must differentiate the ache between that caused by abstinence from orgasm, and that caused by a chastity device.

The former is natural, real, but not typically harmful. It is from vascular pressure, and will subside on its own. It is something our bodies can handle.

The latter CAN be an indication of harm, and can be dangerous. Chastity devices can affect circulation, and can cause dermatological issues, and testicular/vas deferen issues.

I can put up with the pain and discomfort of blue balls without fretting, but the ring of my device can really cause problems with my tubes sometimes, so I need it off at least once a day. Overnight tends to be the most ideal time to have the cage off, as nighttime erections are an important indicator of cardiovascular health, and with the cage on it causes serious pain and bruising (I'm a major grower, and these erections are cardiovascular in nature and nothing to do with arousal or urination for me).