Hi all, I am Jeroen, but sometimes get into the role of Merel. For here it is save to assume Merel is talking. I am into chastity on and off for about 2 years now and always have been self-locking. For me chastity is very much linked feeling frustrated (I love that feeling) and to Merel. When I reach the goal I did set I allow myself to do something for Merel, e.g. buying a new skirt. I would also love to add a punishment component to the chastity experience. For me it is not about being locked as long as possible, it is about the frustration, anticipation, teased and denied (I think if you are locked up for a year and never a release my frustration and anticipation will also be gone) Also it is not really a sex thing for me because as Merel I am not really interested in sex, I just love being a cheerful beautiful woman. As Merel I am always locked since I do not find it very aesthetic to have a woody peeking through a skirt.
Welcome to our fabulous community. Enjoy expressing yourself with out any prejudice here. We all look out for one another.
Hoi Merel, glad to see that I am not the only one in the Netherlands. Meestal leef ik als Evy, non binair preferente als vrouw.
Thank you all for the warm welcome, currently reading some very interesting threads, I will soon also interact in the discussion, but first I like to read..