Chastity in Unusual Situations

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    #1 Gemellia, Sep 25, 2023
    Hello everyone,

    I recently went to a local carnival, and it was my first time riding amusement-park rides while locked. Overall, it was nothing too terrible, although some of the restraining bars put so much pressure on the area that it caused pinching.

    However, it got me thinking: What are some situations that don't occur in daily life, but that probably will occur at some point, that we should try to prepare for? We talk about chastity in daily life often, but there are a lot of corner-case scenarios that are rarely discussed.

    Airport security and doctor visits are big ones, but those subjects have been beaten to death.

    Some others I can think of include:
    • Going to a public pool.
    • Going to the spa / sauna.
    • Practicing martial arts.
    • Carrying a firearm.
    • Rock climbing.
    • Camping.
    • Clubs or concert venues with metal detectors (that you weren't expecting)
    • Interacting with small children (who may try to sit on your lap or want you to hold them)
    I could keep brainstorming, but I wanted to hear everyone else's experience on what to look out for and how it might go / how to prepare.

    Cheers!
     
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    #2 The Queens consort, Sep 25, 2023
    As long as you are not appendix carrying a firearm, you should not have a problem with a chastity device.
     
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    #3 Gemellia, Sep 25, 2023
    I imagine that depends on whether it's a cage or a full-belt. While I currently use a BAWR with a glans ring, I have a BehindBarz full belt also. I never tried carrying with it, but I'm not sure how a holster against the metal waistband would feel.

    I could try this myself and report back, but I don't have much intention of actually wearing the BehindBarz belt, so it's mostly a moot point for me.
     
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    #4 true42, Sep 25, 2023
    The biggest problems that I've encountered, probably in order:

    * Hugs ... you gotta turn kind of to the side to hug now
    * Jogging long distances has issues with some cages
    * Some forms of weightlifting
    * Biking long distances
     
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    #5 The Queens consort, Sep 25, 2023
    I would imagine OWB would be a good option, as well as a belly band, or a pocket holster. Lots of options out there if you aren’t carrying a monster sized piece.
     
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    #6 M@rcellus, Sep 25, 2023
    *hugs
    *getting caught in the rain at a playpark
    *not being able to join in at a spontaneous leap frog session in the street
    *getting stuck to a crane magnet at a scrapyard
    *having comfort issues carrying a machine for murdering human beings
     
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    #7 Deleted member 109631, Sep 25, 2023
    Being held hostage at a bank robbery where they make all hostages undress down to their underwear. Hopefully you're not wearing panties and a bra. Lol
     
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    #8 BavarianWoman, Sep 25, 2023
    At the ISS with key down on earth?
     
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    #9 bondinchas, Sep 25, 2023
    Hugs...
    Yes, I used to be quite wary when having a hug, but now partly bacause I'm so used to being 24/7 I often just forget it's there; Also, anyone who I'm close enough to to have a hug with, now I really wouldn't mind or be embarrassed if they discovered my little secret and asked what it was. I suppose it's because I understand so much more about it now. I could explain the how and why about increased intimacy and dopamine, rather than it just being a wierd form of bondage!
    If I'm aware of wearing it, I still turn a little or lean forward to avoid the intimate contact, but only in the same way that uncaged you'd avoid deliberate genital contact. If they're being more uninhibited and don't avoid contact, then I tend to not worry about the consequences. I've felt a couple of times that someone might have noticed, but nothing has ever been said, and I assume that they've assumed it was just a mobile phone or other thing in a pocket.

    As for any other activity, as I say, I really forget it's there now, (especially as the latest cage never pinches and is so comfortable), so any activity is just normal activity for me.
     
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    #10 Gemellia, Sep 25, 2023
    What kind of weightlifting gave you trouble?

    I've not had any issue with benches, squats, or dumbbell curls / press, but that's mostly all I do for weights. It'd be good to know what I might need to avoid, at least in public.
     
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    #11 ldsnet, Sep 26, 2023
    I can carry with my holster just to the right of center with my BBB with only one minor inconvenience, my underwear can get cut between the waist belt and the holster.
     
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    #12 LockedGreg, Sep 26, 2023
    I carry 3 o'clock and have never had any issues.
     
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    #13 New2it, Sep 26, 2023
    Riding a motorcycle if you have a sport or a naked one. And it depends on the cage that you are wearing and the bike. In my case it’s a HollyTrainer V2 and a Ducati Monster…it’s not exactly comfortable but totally doable. Speed bikes are a no go.
     
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    #14 Gemellia, Sep 26, 2023
    What causes the issue? Is it just the way the cage presses against the seat?
     
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    #15 Slavecaro, Sep 26, 2023
    I had a few issues with my neosteel. Mountain bike riding is impossible. Airports might be possible but you are going to show it to the screeners. Hard benches are uncomfortable. Any real sport will be impacted. You'll be happy to hear that scuba diving is no problem in a CB3000
     
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    #16 Paladintwk, Sep 26, 2023
    Chastity # 17: I take a 10–15-mile bike ride through my neighborhoods at lunch time. My Femdom roommate will lock me in a chastity cage wearing only a pair of short spandex biker shorts and sneakers for the bike ride. The bulge in the tight shorts will be very obvious and humiliating especial going up and down my stairs and walking to my locked bike.

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    #17 The Queens consort, Sep 26, 2023
    I did try a short ride on my recumbent bike, and had no issues.
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    #18 madams-sissysub, Sep 27, 2023
    love it! My madam does the same to me, only I have to wear one of my Lycra catsuits to cycle in.
     
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    #19 Lckdnpnk, Sep 29, 2023
    Now that’s funny, I don’t care who you are.
     
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    #20 meuk85, Sep 30, 2023
    Doing hiptrust excercises, makes it really stand out
     
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    #21 OwnedBy Mistress Dom, Oct 1, 2023
    Climbing over a barb wire fence to loose your footing and get caught and hung up by the cage
     
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    #22 djbakkertje, Oct 1, 2023
    why?? it's not like they are going to notice it
     
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    #23 jemima, Oct 1, 2023
    i think it depend on how big the cage is. if i hug somebody they not gonna notice my little one.
     
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    #24 Gemellia, Oct 1, 2023
    I definitely struggle with hugs and/or picking up children. I assume it depends on your body shape. If you are skinny or have mostly lean muscle, your caged member will protrude pretty far relative to the rest of your body. If you are heavier or have bulkier muscles, people probably won't notice.

    It might depend on how heavy / loose your clothes are, too, but I'm not sure how much that affects hugs.
     
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    #25 Nostromo, Oct 1, 2023
    I’ve ridden sport bike style motorcycles with my old MM Jailbird on. I’d not want to do a four hour ride bit it was readsnbly comfortable for an hour or two. I’ve also been to a personal trainer while caged they aren’t really looking at you crotch. Just avoid really tight shorts.
     
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