This is chastity - You don't own it; it's not yours to play with

So many of us turn to chastity to break a masturbation addiction. We agree to give up control so we can learn self control.

But like most men, we want to try out the latest toy. The latest golf club, set of skis, bike, and so on.

But then you're on the chastity site and you read about this device or that one and you think, "I'm going to try that one!"

But then the cold reality of chastity hits you. "I don't have the key nor can I get it without asking her for it. What am I going to tell her? She'll never go for this! Why the heck would she want to try this new cage out? She wouldn't. "

Damn! ...... This real!

"Honey! Can I interest you in a pair or two of new shoes?"

 

I made the mistake this morning of suggesting it was time to roll the dice to decide my next release. It's been a week since my last one. Her habit is to not start the clock until we've rolled the dice thus extending my lockup even further. She was not amused and sternly rebuked me! She basically said, "I'm in charge and that's my responsibility. I haven't forgotten! So shut the F up!" I thought I was being funny because she was complaining about her TD ("Teaching Director") who has been slacking on his job and I suggested my TD ("Tosser of Dice") was slacking too!

I like the term "hardwear", @LeCouple, but if she has the key, isn't it her "hardwear" protecting her "softwear" from hackers, this one in particular?

I may need to buy her more than 1-2 pairs of shoes before I broach the subject of a new cage. Here's an excerpt from Daniel Amen's book, "Sex on the Brain". He's a neuroscientist who has performed and catalogued thousands of brain scans to learn what parts of our brain are used for various purposes:

"On a recent faculty retreat with the University of California, Irvine Department of Psychiatry, where I teach psychiatric residents, I was walking back from dinner through a shopping district along the quaint cobblestone streets of Taormina, Sicily, with one of my colleagues and his wife. They were talking about buying shoes. The wife wanted her husband to go with her to the shoe boutique and he was balking a bit. I looked at him and said, 'You want to go with her.' He gave me a quizzical look which said, 'Why?'

I replied, 'In the brain, the sensory area of the foot is right next door to the sensory area for the clitoris. Unknowingly, women often feel that buying shoes is like foreplay. Feet are one of the best ways to a woman’s affections.'"

I also think more foot rubs are in order for my keyholder!!!!

 

You'll have to let us know what the meaning of the different colors are as she reveals them to you!

 

I tried a nub once too and had to throw it away. It was way too easy to pull out of. I bought it on Amazon. She didn't see it when it was delivered. I was able to try it on once when I was released for grooming and she wasn't monitoring me. I won't do that again.