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    #1 JaySaysYes, Nov 23, 2023
    "permanent", "24/7"....except when unlocked for sex, cleaning, something.

    How about a new term that is crystal clear?

    Time Between Key Use, or TBKU.

    My TBKU is currently 9 days, my longest is 4 months.
     
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    #2 Lazlo Toth, Nov 23, 2023
    I love the term. Being unambiguous is always difficult and you may have just solved that for us. At least you created a useful term for us to consider.
     
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    #3 IB-Chaste, Nov 23, 2023
    That really helps with not overcomplicating things. I for one am excited by having another acronym in my life.

    Now, nobody ever be confused again. There will be no misinterpretations.

    We could make a poll on TBKU’s….
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, Nov 23, 2023
    Great idea!
     
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    #5 Echo321, Nov 23, 2023
    I look at it like this. My local convenience store is open 24/7 and they can’t close just because they want to. If there’s a power outage, hurricane or some old lady hits gas instead of brake and ends up driving into the store they will shut down. I still consider them 24/7 but sometimes shit happens. In my world I’m locked 24/7 because I can’t take the cage off if I want to. The force of nature that is my wife, however…
     
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    #6 JaySaysYes, Nov 23, 2023
    Right, so in tech we have things like the five nines where we might say that a service is around for a minimum of 99.999% of the time. This is because of unexpected circumstances taking a service offline for a few seconds or minutes here and there.

    You probably think services are 100% available, but you would be wrong, just like you thinking your local store is 24/7 when they, in fact, are not.

    Servives can't advertise as 24/7 or 100% availability if they only deliver 99.999%, since they would be lying.

    But that's besides the point, since time between keys used has no relationship to your store nor to how much clock time you claim to have been locked.

    It's how long since the key was used. You can say it's minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, or epochs if you like.
     
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    #7 BavarianWoman, Nov 23, 2023
    Although I am very into numbers, may I suggest the term "sufficient"?;)
     
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    #8 Mr_anonymous, Nov 23, 2023
    By this logic six days. Next release is supposedly next saturday. We have a new bondage set coming tomorrow so I'm hoping for pity when we try it out over the weekend.
     
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    #9 filltee, Nov 24, 2023
    Nail hit squarely on the head.

    i ride long distances on my bike sometimes and being caged at the time in not comfortable and can be numbing fidgeting about to get comfortable at 70+ mph when there are no service stations around is not sensible.

    If you need to get out for maintenance, medical visits, or practicality then do so.. You know if you took the opportunity to cheat or not..

    Time between key use means nothing to me.

    My lady and I have sat long last found I cage I can wear full time and it only ever needs to come off for haircuts.. we decided to start getting the offending hair laser removed to eliminate that need ... once completed the cage will not need to come of at all. but for all the reasons above it will not be permanently locked on. Which is common sense... though from a fantasy p.o.v. I 'd love to fill the lock with metal putty.
     
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    #10 Disciplined Boyfriend, Nov 24, 2023
    What if the key use was for cleaning your ears? ;-) And just so there's no confusion, my ears are cleaned way more frequent than my cage is unlocked.

    A
     
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    #11 Chaste J., Nov 24, 2023
    What a load of tosh!
     
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    #12 jemima, Nov 24, 2023
    my key is used lots cos i got 2 cages and 1 is nite cage and the other is day cage. but i am locked up a lot.
     
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    #13 JaySaysYes, Nov 24, 2023
    And unlocked a lot.
     
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    #14 JaySaysYes, Nov 24, 2023
    Let me know your address, I'l send you some qtips.
     
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    #15 JaySaysYes, Nov 24, 2023
    It's the time since the key was last used.

    Maybe English isn't your strong point, or you have a low IQ, but it's not a difficult idea since it literally spells out what it means in plain English, or British English for the yankees amongst us.
     
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    #16 Disciplined Boyfriend, Nov 25, 2023
    No need I know someone with a chastity cage key ;-)

    A
     
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    #17 Jay Sub, Nov 25, 2023
    If we are to have clarity, with TBKU, what does that actually achieve? My TBKU, is typically about 24hrs, but that says nothing about the length of denial. It isn't a level playing field to make the data relevant. As a foreskin owner, and one that might potentially be unlocked at anytime (I'm not lol), it's my duty to ensure that should my wife want to play with it, that it is clean. She doesn't want to stop in the middle of something to make me wash, as that will kill the mood.

    The only thing that, if we are having a pissing contest that actually matters is Time Between Fluid Release (of any kind) TBFR. PA, 24/7 edging, teasing, whatever don't get to the route of the data. Which is how denied are you?
     
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    #18 jemima, Nov 25, 2023
    2 times a day. :)
     
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    #19 JaySaysYes, Nov 25, 2023
    I agree, which is why it's not "Time Between Orgasms" or "Time of (orgasm|erection|sex|whatever) denial".

    I chose the language on purpose, so it's use is specifically narrow and focused.

    I suport the drive for clarity, so by all means suggest others.

    I'm zero denied, since I can use tools to remove the cage or if I REALLY wanted an orgasm I'd jiggle the cage or something. However, it's 8 months since I last had an orgasm, and I love it.

    What does "route of the data" mean?
     
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    #20 Steelwerks Slave, Nov 25, 2023
    Exactly, great idea. “I’ve been permanently locked up 365/24/7 for 3 years except for every three days when I get released for cleaning…etc” :eek:
     
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    #21 Jay Sub, Nov 25, 2023
    Well spotted. Root not route. OK now we have to redefine denied? Your average TBFR is your ATD (or Average Time Denied) or more specifically your ATBFR (Average Time Before Fluid Release) it is the only way of comparing (on an equal footing) all inclusively, from fullbelters to honoursystemers.
     
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    #22 JaySaysYes, Nov 25, 2023
    Your reply didn't parse, so I ignored it.

    No need to involve me, or this post, in your machinations about your important thing since creating new posts about it are on offer this weekend; Start one, get unlimited new posts for free for life.

    You're welcome.
     
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    #23 Jay Sub, Nov 25, 2023
    Makes perfect sense
     
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    #24 enslavedbyc, Nov 25, 2023
    ATBKU (Average Time Between Key Use) = 3.5 days

    AAHU (Annual Average of Hours Unlocked) = 102 hours

    AAO (Annual Average of Orgasms) = 104

    AAFDR (Annual Average of Full Day Release) = 1
     
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    #25 IB-Chaste, Nov 25, 2023
    I said that recently… now, under consideration of other threads that have been created I feel my opinions came to soon. That thread now seems in sound mind by comparison!

    Ah well, being premature is something I’m accustomed to these days.

    I think I shall make a new suggestion… what if… every time we post we start with our full backstory? Family genetics, chastity defaults, orgasm frequency… the works. We give everything, every time just in case anyone is confused? That sounds like a plan to me!

    It shouldn’t be too hard. That vinny guy who lives with his wife and is now caged, but before that lived in a threeway relationship with another woman does it. He wasn’t allowed to touch anyone or anything, and they beat on him constantly until he moved out of town. He does it all the time… so you know. Why cant we all?
     
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