During the past 40 days I haven't enjoyed a full, pleasurable orgasm, I have only been allowed by my Goddess 1 ruined orgasm and 3 wet dreams. Every time I feel that the ejaculation is happening and I realise that it is a dream only when it is too late to stop it. When I wake up, my balls feel heavy and quite painful, it feels more like a ruined orgasm than a normal one, makes me horny and sexually frustrated for the whole day. So are wet dreams practically ruined orgasms, since there is no stimulation during ejaculation?
My understanding is a wet dream is not an orgasm at all, but a release of excess fluids that the body cannot keep storing due to continuous production of those fluids. Kinda of like pulling a pressure release valve on a hot water tank. So, it would make perfect sense that a wet dream provides no relief, but it's still not a ruined orgasm.
I’ve never had a wet dream ever, but my Madam can orgasm while dreaming/asleep and for her there very pleasurable.
Wet dreams, for me at least, are just an erotic dream that ends with me waking up to a wet patch in the bed. There is no orgasm or anything like an orgasm. I always wear a condom over the end of the cage at night as this stops me having to change the bedding every time I have a wet dream (which is normally the very night I put fresh sheets on )
I’ve only had 2 “wet dreams” in my life and I’m not sure they qualified. I woke up both times trying to fight it off and it just happened. No pleasure at all. Both were after several months without the cage being removed. So for me, I’d say they are not anything pleasurable.
I never found wet dreams to be particularly pleasurable. Never accompanied by a climactic crescendo . Just a nice dream cut short by awakening to a potential mess. Normally i wake a second or two before ejaculation and these days, (or nights) due to the nature of the device Im in, i can place my finger on the end of the urethral tube and remain relaxed as nature takes it's course. Off I go to the bathroom in my own time once it's over. No mess. i think for me, the sensation of a wet dream is a little like a ruined orgasm but without the strong passionate build up prior to a caged or ruined one.
FWIW, I’ve possibly had one wet dream in my life, when I was a preteen. I woke up with a mess in my underwear, and it scared me. Mom took me to the doctor, he spoke with her outside of my earshot, and we came home. It was much later I figured out what happened. Since then I’ve had many erotic dreams, but no emissions. I might wake up humping the bed, but nothing else. My Queen has similar dreams, and sometimes wonders if she has had an O, but has no evidence other than being extra moist. That could be from arousal.
YES. I had wet dreams in my teens and 20s and they were pleasurable for 100% sure. Sometimes it was the erotic dream, sometimes it was waking up in the middle of an orgasm and sometimes both. I still have erotic dreams, especially when waking up late, and sometimes the edge of an orgasm m, but haven lt had a wet dream for years and years. Again, everyone is different.
So biologically, when this happens I consider it a good thing. It happens to me at around day 10. It truly means that Chastity is working and you have been kept locked up without being able to achieve a release. It is frustrating but relieving at the same time. It is healthy for the prostate and it should not represent a violation or a mistrust with your key holder because it happens naturally and you can not control it. It gets back to your teenage days! So Hot!
As others will tell you a wet dream may not even be accompanied by a dream its just a nocturnal emission. A little too much pressure just got released Which is good, its just like milking. Before I learned the benefits of not having orgasms my lady used to like the nocturnal discharges as they were pleasure free pressure reductions which required no effort from her to keep me denied.
I take this as the idea that the body needs a “release” if it’s been too long sense the last release. This is going to happen more in teens ans 20s when hormones and frustrations both run high. Hasn’t happened to me in 30 years. Everyone’s experience is different and mine wasn’t that it is not pleasurable. When I had a very erotic dream and woke up right before or during release, it was defiantly a trip. Not every time. I can understand others who didn’t wake up this way, but I often woke up in middle.