Hello. First post, naturally. Just arrived. I am a dom; my wife is my slave. We have ventured on to the journey of chastity to enhance our sex life -- I am not her sub although she is my KH. It is what I think of as an unusual situation, hence why I am here, to see who else may be on the same type of journey. I am not into crossdressing, feminization, degradation or humiliation. But when I release, I want it to have meaning and purpose other than just my own gratification. I am just as responsible for my slave's happiness and satisfaction as she is for mine, and I take this responsibility very seriously. Hence, when it's time to go, it's time to go. As we age, it becomes a little harder (so to speak) to perform from time to time. Not so much erectile performance (although that happens to us all at a certain age, I'm fairly certain lol) but rather the ability to complete. Being locked up, teased, denied, etc. seems to cause a buildup of ardor and passion that I very much enjoy. And naturally, she is likewise teased and denied through the process -- making our mutual experience more passionate and satisfactory. That's the theory, anyhow, and so far, it has worked out well in the brief time since we've started. Anyhow, enough for now. I am going to enjoy reading the boards and perhaps making suggestions or asking questions; I don't know if anyone else here is trying what we are but I look forward to finding out. Regardless, cheers!
I’m somewhat similar. My wife is sub. I lock anywhere from a week to a month when I feel that masturbating is detracting from actual sex. Although there are a lot of subs and sissies here, I think you’ll find the community welcoming of all.
Welcome. Always great to see people with their own dynamics joining. As a former Top who has had their own interests evolve over time look forward to hearing about other's experiences.
Is there a place here to discuss what we do? My rationale is similar although I am also a switch and she will service top me as required (perhaps once a month when I need an "adjustment" lol)...