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    #1 KeyMistress93, Jan 9, 2024
    Hey everyone, I've been reading posts on the forums for the past two days and decided to join.
    I am very new to all of this. My husband introduced the idea to me a few days ago and I was honestly a bit taken aback at first but now I've been reading and embracing it and have found it is absolutely what I want! We are waiting on his cage to arrive and I can't wait!
    Because everything is new and exciting, its all I can think about but I'm partly afraid it's maybe just a "honeymoon period" if that makes sense?
    We have already started to play with tease and denial and he has been very good at doing everything that I have asked so far.
    Hope the fun continues because I haven't felt like this in any other dynamics we have previously tried.
    Anyway, just wanted to say hi and I look forward to this adventure and learning more from the posts here! :)
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Jan 9, 2024
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #3 latexbound, Jan 9, 2024
    A warm welcome!
     
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    #4 maid julie, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome and enjoy your time here and there a lot of great people and ideas here
     
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    #5 Claud_Bear, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome to the group. There is a ton of good information here slatted throughout the forums. Use the search function or make a post. You should have plenty of people willing to give you input.
    My wife and I are also somewhat new to all of this as well. We started about the beginning of November. Feel free to message us or pop into a chat room.

    Don't get too frustrated if things start out a little slow, you have a learning curve to adjust for. He won't be able to go straight into a cage for 3 months right off the bat. Also , like a lot of women, you may feel guilty at the imbalance of orgasms between you two...
    Take your time, TALK a lot and have fun.
     
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    #6 Slutty Susan, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome to the mansion, good luck
     
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    #7 TangoSub, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome to CM. lots of information and great people here in the community
     
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    #8 LesterBallard, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome
     
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    #9 MissyB, Jan 9, 2024
    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community. Good luck.
     
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    #10 Siro, Jan 10, 2024
    Welcome
     
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    #11 KeyMistress93, Jan 10, 2024
    Thank you for your kind welcome Claud_Bear!
    There is so much information here, I don't even know what it is I want to know to search but I'm browsing through and figuring it out, all part of the learning I suppose!
    One huge positive I have found so far is how open and honest we are now being with each other and how much easier it is to talk, definitely making both of us much more confident. We have a very strong relationship anyway but this has already brought a closeness that I wasn't aware was missing!☺️
     
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    #12 Short guy locked, Jan 10, 2024
    Welcome to the mansion I have learned a lot by being a member of this group if you have any questions to chat room is a very good place to talk to people have fun enjoy be safe
     
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    #13 boi paul, Jan 12, 2024
    Ma'am, Welcome to the Mansion. Nice to meet a new couple finding the wonders of an FLR! It is a breath of fresh air that you post that hubby came to you about the idea of chastity. Your reaction and helping him on the path to chastity. If it is a honeymoon period, Mistress and I have been living it for 22 years now! Each day we learn something new in my Seva to my Goddess.
     
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    #14 Curious40ish, Jan 12, 2024
    Welcome. Glad you have found this lifestyle and web site. lots of great info around here.
     
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    #15 Tom43, Jan 12, 2024
    Hi and welcome to CM ,you will find very much information in the forums
     
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    #16 Mandrake_74, Jan 12, 2024
    Welcome and enjoy your journey!
     
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    #17 DonnaSue, Jan 12, 2024
    Welcome! IMHO, you have the most important part of this lifestyle already conquered! Most people on here do not have very open communications with their partners. That openness will prove critical to your success. Talk to him frequently about how you are feeling and learn what is going on in his caged mind, too!
     
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    #18 Californiaswitch, Jan 13, 2024
    Welcome!! I think it’s pretty obvious at this point there are plenty of people to help you along with your chastity journey. Don’t forget to have fun! It can all seem overwhelming at first. Take it slow, ask questions, and make it a mutually fun experience, and you have a fun little chastity slave in no time!
     
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    #19 PWhippedHub, Jan 14, 2024
    Welcome
     
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    #20 raj23245, Jan 14, 2024
    Greetings,

    I am male age 47 from India, I am into bdsm and just got to know about this website. I am curious about this and wanted to experience and learn about chastity devices
     
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    #21 Kinky Nerf Herder, Jan 14, 2024
    Hi and welcome
     
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    #22 Xileh, Jan 15, 2024
    The key, is to determine if he has submissive tendencies. If he does, you have many new possibilities ahead.

    Do some research on Female Led Relationships (FLR). If it appeals to you, and he is willing, all of this transitions from a dynamic to a lifestyle. With strong communication, you both will have a new framework that removes the ambiguity of vanilla relationships. You both will be happier, more intimate, and more satisfied.

    And, the sex is the best you can imagine.
     
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    #23 Ruffian, Jan 16, 2024
    Welcome, my husband and I are relatively new to this as well. After about a month of my husband being on here I decided to join and write about my experience. Feel free to read about it. It may help you acclimate better or at least answer a few questions if you have any. Hope you enjoy it here.
     
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    #24 iome343, Jan 16, 2024
    A warm welcome, miss
     
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    #25 Muffleduk, Jan 16, 2024
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    Welcome to CM @KeyMistress93 :+1:
    Please take on all the good advice, and treat it as a journey. Not just his but yours too. Unless you're lucky this first cage won't be your last one, be prepared to end up with a collection. It's taken me several cages and rings to get to a comfortably restrictive cage.
    Glad for your hubby that you are onboard and embraced his desire for chastity.
    Take care. :love::lockkey:
     
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