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    No offense but this cage is actually a stupid idea for relationships because sooner or later, you will have to take it off a reason, be it a medical reason or an emergency and if you can't take it off then you'll end up having to destroy it and risk seriously injuring yourself in the process. This permanently locking cage looks more suitable as punishment for serial offenders (violent criminals). I wouldn't go near it with a 10-meter cattle prod! NO WAY!!!
     
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    I share your view… it’s just like routine cleanings and shaving!! Enjoy your Journey!
     
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    I've spoken to people here in CM who are in permanent chastity they tell me they still have to unlock every 1 or 2 weeks (in some cases, 1 to 3 months) for routine cleaning and they tell me it's just not possible to go literally forever without unlocking even one time.
     
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    Classic fantasy versus reality topic.

    I had an hour long adventure in an MRI a week ago and unremovable chastity wouldn't have been an option. I think if we can all agree that "permanent" includes various situations where the cage is removed but her control remains intact.

    My brother who just had heart stents inserted from his groin would also not be in a situation where he could remain in a cage. He doesn't practice the fine art of chastity but they were all up in his privates for that.

    Letting him loose to wander 'unescorted' without her control would be hard to qualify as permanent.

    My wife routinely takes off my cage for business travel that requires air travel (her choice) but I get a soft "be good" reminder as I depart.
     
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    No offense, I agree. Just wanted to receive honest opinions and experiences.
     
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    A permanently locking cage is a definite no-go for me, but it gave me an idea for a "Fantasy Chastity" caption... I just posted it on this thread: Encouraging Chastity Captions!
     
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    The injuring was what husband was more worried about. He said while he could of injured the guy with the whirly buzzy thingy he said he was more worried about the metal heating up and burning they guy. He said he knew when to stop with the whirly buzzy thingy before he got all the way thru and he could just keep wiggling it to make it break.

    At one point, he called for duck tape and some of the people asked him why. He said he had to put it over the sharp edges on the break so they wouldn't stab the guy.

    But he had some people holding ice paks on it and he clipped some metal thingies to it. He said it was to absorb and spread put the heat made by the whirly buzzy on the metal. He called it a "heat sync" or something like that.

    Husband guessed in this case, the guy's wife injured him making the lock "permanent" because he said it looked like she'd used a soddering gun to damage the lock so it couldn't be undone. He said that probably burned his scrotum and the infection started there. I know when husband got it off, a nasty smell filled the room.

    But yes, you can do some bad harm if you're not careful or know what you're getting into.
     
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    That’s alot of trouble to go through just for a kink. SMH!
     
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    The experience of having to be cut out of a cage with a saw or other high speed tool would surely scare off most sane people from attaching something permanently to their body. I think the "permanent" effect is mostly in the mind. "I can't take this thing off without cutting it." or "I'm not allowed to ever remove it without permission." At some point you will likely be forced to remove any device for medical, cleaning, irritation, etc. reasons.
    Having said this, I did test a set of handcuffs one time and ending up getting stuck because I couldn't insert the key and eventually it broke, so I had to file my way out of them. Luckily they were cheap and not hard to cut through, but it took me a couple of hours with a file to escape... My girlfriend laughed her head off when she found out!
     
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    and that was with a cheap pair of handcuffs... Imagine getting stuck in a solid steel cage around your cock! Forget titanium! :eek:
     
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    The qiui app went down yesterday for me at least. I knew I had to go through a security checkpoint so picked the cylinder lock quite easily (with mistress authorisation). All good but now I have to keep my work Skelton keys locked in a tamper proof envelope too. Wish I didn't have so much security at work or that I could forget I'm a expert lock-picker at times. I have to have a willingness to be under her control.
     
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    Yeah, I never seem to learn that learning how to pick a lock or a safe or something or other just kinda ruins the whole experience, lol.
     
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    I never had the patience to learn to pick a lock so if I lose my keys, I'm in trouble! LOL!
     
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    And how do you do that with an internal/integrated lock?
     
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    Rotating the husband counter clockwise.
     
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    I just got logged out of my QIUI app account and I'm trying to regain access to my account. It wouldn't take my password so I went to reset it and it said it was successful, but when I went to login with the new password it said the maximum login attempts were exceeded and it wants me to wait another 2 hours.

    I have an emergency backup key tucked away in the safe and I'm not due for a cleaning for another week or so, but if I can't get back into my account by then, I'll just use the emergency key, unlock the acrylic lockbox containing my cage keys and then I'll just swap out the padlock on the lockbox itself and throw out the KeyPod.

    It ain't cool to be locked out of your own account with neither a reason nor a way to regain access to it. I don't play those games! :mad:
     
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    I like the idea behind QIUI but I've heard about too many problems with it to use it on husband yet.
     
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    I had created a basic user guide with screenshots for it, but then they changed its layout, so it's pretty much useless now. :(
     
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    It doesn't make sense logically... (besides the medical issue)

    If you want to have chastity in a relationship, isn't the appeal that your partner can unlock you but won't? If she can't unlock you, and if you can't earn your release, then in my opinion it's less fun. And you can still play around with the fantasy of an unlockable device, like she can pretend she lost the key or something.

    And if you are 100% sure that you never ever want to be able to use your penis again (for whatever reason) - wouldn't the most logical solution be to just cut the whole thing off? If you think "omg no way" then it means you don't actually want permanent chastity.
     
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    A real accurate summary
     
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    It's important to us that my mistress is in control. So our plan b is the key sealed up with a one time use signature over the seal. That's enough to stop me from tampering with the key. We work together to ensure she is in control of her penis. I gave it to her forever and I want her to choose how it's used.
     
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    Does your urethra tube go far enough in to prevent pull out/escape from cage? I can’t imagine a purpose for a short urethra tube that doesn’t enhance security.
     
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    That is one of the possible dynamics in a relationship. In my case both keys stay in the PO box and only my KH has key for it. Technically she can decide to unlock me, but first she has to go and fetch the keys. And I am not earning anything for two reasons.
    1 - we are not in FLR, if for some reason I decide I don't want chastity anymore - the titanium BAWR won't stop me even if she doesn't unlock me, which she will
    2 - I do not get unlocked for any play and my KH is not interested in PIV. I get unlock only for cleaning and in case of emergency, of course.

    I get the appeal for unlockable cage. Unfortunately, as stated above, sooner or later some medical issue will require the cage to go off. That's is why I have the next best thing I can imagine - key exists, but I can't get to it and it is not very convenient for her either.

    I am definitely not sure I will never want to be able to use my penis again, but I am sure I want to stay locked as long as she wants me to even if this means forever (which she said is the current situation). Of course, she may change her mind some day. Or not.

    I am trying to not use the phrase "permanent chastity", because nothing is permanent in life. Maybe "permanent for now" is more suitable in my case. It is permanent. For now. Which means I am staying locked forever until something changes - one of use decides to change the situation or emergency happens.
     
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