Are you aloud a break

On average I'm out maybe 24/36 hours a month. I was out basically a day yesterday. Went back in till memorial day this morning.

 

I’m not sure if I’m aloud a break, but I am definitely not allowed a break.

Sorry about the tease, I just had to when I read the thread title.

 

Im caged 24/7, only breaks are when She wants me out for play or for church. Literally, that's it.

 

If I still had PIV, I think she would certainly allow me a rest afterwards. Roughly until after cleaning her and me. Shorter would only spoil the mood, longer would raise false hopes.

 

Are you asking whether a gag is an effective tool to be silenced?

 

Only allowed out for her play and then locked back up. In fact, feel uncomfortable not wearing it.

 

Use tends to be intermittent. So all in 24/7 for decent stretches, then freedom for a week or a month, then back in again... I think I got too comfortable early on and told her after awhile I don't even notice it. She's indicated she really likes the early days when it was new and we made a big deal about it and it had a huge impact on our play. Lengthy breaks kind of reset that for us.

 

I used to take long breaks. Weeks or months at a time. Since getting my current cage the breaks have been much shorter and much more seldom. After a couple of days I'll see the cage sitting on my side table and think, "man, I spent way too much money on that thing to not be using it."

 

I’m typically allowed breaks but it’s always changing. The ball is completely in her court when it’s on or off and for how long. It’s exciting but unpredictable

 

Very rarely given breaks. Been locked over six months with one 4 day break for travel. I have a medical appointment this week and will be unlocked for 12 hours or so.

 

Yes. The main reason is for backcountry trips. Those longer than about 3 days it is just not practical to wear a chastity device. But these are not opportunity for sexual indulgence. All my energy is focused on human powered travel and basic needs.
Also, was on break most of last summer as she was dealing with a knee injury.
Otherwise, when M is in good health and I’m home, I’m locked

 

At this point, the only breaks allowed are for medical reasons. Had prostate surgery a couple years ago, so there was a break for that & recovery. Earlier this year, there was a persistent testicular ache, so I had a week out for that. During any break, I am still not allowed to cum or to play with Mistress' property. That's not always so easy.

 

Some typos never dye.

 

Rest in peas.

 

Sadly this is no more...

 

You are allowed what ever you need. You need a break, take it.

 

If my wife wants me to have a break then she lets me have one. But a break in our case would likely be a few hours, most it’s even been is a day and the cage is locked back on. I’ve been locked so much of our marriage that it feels weird not to have the cage on. Since starting with the cage, I’ve not ever been left unlocked outside of her supervision no matter what.

 

Why take it off for church?

 

In case I gotta go to the bathroom, my bathroom cage clean up is sort of a pain. Also, I wear a plastic cage (The Vice Mini v. 2.0) and the base ring needs adjusting from time to time especially sitting for an hour, I don't wanna be trying to "adjust" in the sanctuary.

 

I used to get a week or two break occasionally in the first year or two of chastity, then we got serious. Now I’m allowed out for doctor appointments, so like two a year maybe, and my Wife will allow me about once every 4-6 weeks to sleep cage free to allow him to get those overnight erections.
Only other breaks are for a good cleaning every 3-4 days, rare piv, or my once a week edging sessions by handjob. So a few hours a month minus the overnight.
Those freedom weeks are a thing of the past for sure

 

She suggested that I take it off just before the new year and hasn't told me to put it back on, so I guess I'm on a break

I do as I'm told, right? Not complaining.

 

I get unlocked for cleaning, sports, travel and whenever etse she might wish it. After those eventy are over the CB is directly back on again.

Wheather you consider that "breaks" is up to you.

 

I am on my 14th year. The longest I went locked daily was 5 month with no orgasm. Normally I was allowed 3-4 orgasms in the first 10 years. We are an old retired couple so eventually medical issues with one or the other would prevent chastity play for more than maybe 8 months a year and sometimes less when we both had surgeries.

Your dick will get used to it. It is like wearing a ring at first you are aware it is in your finger most of the time. Sometimes it will feel tight. Finger eventually forms rough skin under the ring and you forget it is there. I forget I am wearing mine most of the day.

these days I get to orgasm about once every month or 6 weeks. My wife is bi and leans more towards females. We had her girlfriend in our lives for much of our marriage which resulted to sex most days. After we moved and became monogamous my wife really was not into dicks so we went a long time without any sex which is when I discovered chastity play. It fit our situation nicely. Plus I have a very small dick, ED and am sterile so being locked also serves as pu is he t for that too.

I say all this because how long you stay locked and/or orgasm free depends on what your wife wants. We know couples where the wife wants the husband’s dick all the time and some where the wife does it solely to please her husband. The latter example would benefit from chastity unlike the first case. You can go as long as you both want. Let’s be real and acknowledge that you are not going to do long term if you do not want to.

So the answer is that you can do it as long as you BOTH want to and you will get used to the cage as long as you get the correct size. Mine is comfy and most times I forget I am wearing it until I use the bathroom. So it is up to you.