Since we have words like "funishment" and "fauxing", I thought of an addition, based on discussions about being forced into chastity or forced to wea women's underwear (haha). Fauced - A combination of faux and forced, fake forced. Something you weren't forced to do, since you wanted to do it anyway. Usaged: "My wife fauced me to masturbate", "I was fauced to watch porn"
There is a sort-of similar term "CNC" or "consensual non-consent", in which the sub or bottom (or whatever) is "forced" to engage in or do things he might otherwise not get up to on his own.
My word is frustratisfaction. When you're really horny, denied and desperate, but but she says or does something that just melts you and you get that warm cosy feeling as the intensity subsides.
Subspace was a new word to me when I started chastity, but it seems that some think it is only experienced when sessioning, whereas I think it's common for the denied to experience it at anytime.
"decridibilizes"; synonymous with discredits, but is way more awesome and should only be used by alpha males. "I'm in a chastity cage because i want her to think that i'm submissive. I could shwing that cage and break it anytime". But really I've got alphaness dripping from me. I'm in charge of all the bitches and all the males too. Fuck yeeeeeeaaaaaah!
“Chasturbation”, when someone claims to be into chastity and denial, but is in fact merely engaged in one massively long wank. Closely related the “Themale Dongination”, where a man persuades his weary wife to dress up in the way he finds most exciting, talk and act in the way he finds most exciting, adorn his penis in a splendid metal suit of armour costing hundreds if not thousands, and perhaps over time acquires many such pieces of adornment for his stupendous obelisk. He confers with other such men, discussing his penis with them, comparing notes and photos, and they swap advice about how to visit airports and hospitals without terrifying others with the sight of their incredible and fascinating cybertronic dicks. Most incredibly of all they claim this makes them submissive in some way.
As we progressed in understanding and enjoying my unexpected switch to submissive after 25+years of marriage, and my wife exploring how she can dictate and completely control our sexual activity to be perfect for her, without having to feel any pressure to engage in any activity out of duty. We discovered that not only was I submissive, but that I was a masochist and she quite enjoyed really quite severe and prolonged amounts of pain being inflicted on my balls. What was really unexpected was when one of her torture sessions resulted in me having a whole body euphoric shaking experience like nothing I'd ever had. We called it a paingasm. I accept that term might have already existed, but neither of us had heard it, so we feel we invented it independently of any prior art.
I would love that. I would love ball torture being given often and mistress surprising me with it constantly. I hope one day she'll find her stride and not be scared of hurting them too much. Women constantly told that ball torture is the worst thing you can do to a man... but not a masochist. You're lucky she enjoys ball torture.