My first device was a Curve, which was too big, and I just recently got a dhgate a080. The problem I'm having is that the device is not flush against my body. It naturally wants to sit about half way down my shaft, as you can see from the picture. When I look at other other pictures on the site, everyone's seems to be flush against their body. What am I doing wrong? Too small a cage? Too small a ring? Or is it ok like this? Any thoughts would be much appreciated!
I would say the locking ring (A ring) is too big. can you slip your finger between the A ring and your shaft. if so it is to big.
Well, I don't use metal, so I'm not sure I can help too much. That said, in silicone, I have the same problem. It is exacerbated if I use too much lube inside the ring/cage. So I make it a point NOT to lube this area. This causes the silicone to grip the body better, and helps to keep it high. Nights are still a problem, though. In my experience, it is a bit problematic if the device sits low as you describe. When you are aroused, the top portion of the shaft kind of bulges up, and the lower half is constrained and held down by the cage. This bends your penis, like so: |-~-.,
Yeah, I can definitely slip a finger in there. I ordered the same size that was comfortable on my Curve, but it does seem to be larger. Variations and all that.
If you still have your curve locking rings see what the smallest you can get into that is comfortable and you cant squeeze a finger in under. That will most likely be the size of A ring you need.